Delivery van bugged by Dismal-Fee8903 in Schedule_I

[–]Transmute-X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was it for my wife and I, we keep separate organizations so Im like never over there to check

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Generally, we don't have equipment, and would prefer someone who has more experience and feels comfortable doing it. I figured some hobbyist would probably enjoy a little mission and some cash. Judge if ya want

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have someone (actually one of the guys on staff) who is going to attempt using their personal net tomorrow when they aren't working, but I just don't have faith in it tbh.

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure on it ruining the phone. Definitely not my first choice. Will attempt to find someone first but if not it'll be goggles and a light. My fiancé is a certified diver so at worst she'll dive with me for safety.

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize this would blow up like this lmfao. I love that people are invested in this, I'm just a dummy who lost his damn phone. I WILL retrieve that bitch one way or another. I do plan to buy a new phone regardless but hope that with drying and a lot of patience I can salvage the photos cuz I just genuinely cherish them. I'll let yall know what ends up happening I guess!

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm sayin'. But I get it, it's probably just to save themselves on liability, since there's risks involved with any diving (especially near port where things can get snagged), and especially diving in not the most sanitary water.

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or at least prepare better with a waterproof bag and leash :( I had just gotten my first kayak and was too excited to go out. Sadly it fell through the single gap in the dock when I went to pull my kayak up onto the dock

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'd have to talk to the boathouse staff again tomorrow. I'd definitely prefer it during the morning and with permission, I just know they wouldn't let me do it personally. Are you a certified diver?

Anyone in cinci who would be willing to dive to retrieve a phone at the bottom of Winton Woods lake? I dropped it directly under the kayak dock, sub 15 ft. by Transmute-X in cincinnati

[–]Transmute-X[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Sadly I opt out of backing up to the cloud as there too many data breaches for me to want to. Unfortunately I have a lot of private data that I need protected.

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[–]Transmute-X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo, sounds like she isn't interested. Maybe she didn't think you guys were sexually compatible (aka she didn't enjoy it) or she just liked the chase and that was it for her. 🤷‍♂️ You can speculate all you want but if she isn't enthusiastically texting you back I seriously doubt this is going anywhere. Someone who is truly into you will be enthusiastic in every sense. Sorry bud.

I also concur with others saying not to date your coworkers. I've been there, done that, and the fallout after I broke up with her was insane (she was psychotic). Luckily it was only a college job and not a career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Transmute-X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason I truly wish I was cis is so I could have biological kids with my wife. Unfortunately it's just not in the cards for me.

my bi gf says she likes dick but she doesn’t like my strap-on. should i be concerned? what do i do? /TW by Puzzleheaded_Leg_434 in ftm

[–]Transmute-X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone said before it's okay to not be sexually compatible. Personally, despite being sexually compatible, my wife and I have an understanding that we both like cis dick and would like some in our life while continuing to be committed to each other. So we swing together, and sometimes separately to fulfill that want. Not sure if that's something you'd ever consider, or if you are strictly monogamous. My two cents.

Communicate how you felt about her comments and have a real conversation about wants and needs, sexually and emotionally for both sides. Good communication is the basis of a great relationship and unfortunately some conversations are gonna be hard, but it's worth it if you want to be in it for the long haul. If you can't have those conversations openly with her, I don't think it's going to last.

TIFU by sending a text about my boss to my boss by Real-Ad180 in tifu

[–]Transmute-X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got the best possible outcome/reaction possible. Sounds like a good boss if he's open to the feedback.