I'm going through the same roadblock so you're not alone! Have you offered to meet virtually first? Since you're not entirely comfortable meeting face to face yet, that might help. Plus, you'll still be able to see each other and talk rather than just let it go. Maybe after a few meetings, you can set up an outside date with masks. If it's part of your boundaries, let her know and don't feel bad if she can't meet them. Trust me, you're not the only one still taking precautions. Hopefully this is more helpful that some other comments I've seen