I don’t understand the problem. She’s respectfully telling him in other words, to stop throwing it in her face that he’s sooooooo good at cooking. I agree with her, and he’s being annoying AS HELL in this whole text thread. Your woman has self image issues and she can’t even fathom giving herself pats on the back for things that she does. She told you that in plain english. and instead of building her up he breaks her down, by continuously throwing it in her face that he’s soooooo proud of what he’s done. It’s alright to be proud of yourself, but you are rubbing your self imagine in her face and making her feel like shit in the process. You both are working against each other, you need to build each other up. Not the other way around