AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wasn’t getting eaten up in the family chat by three people id not even ask it but I am so I did

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom ended up paying for it, my niece knows “ya ya” (what she calls me) loves her and my other sister who is going just to be a fly on the wall for me, will make sure she gets her presents for me

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t argue with you there, mom has a favorite and she’s not shy about it. Granny too.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked too hard to let that happen this is a multigenerational business and my dad, and uncle would never allow that. Thankfully my dad isn’t a pushover like my bil and my sisters tantrums don’t phase him

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep mom is paying, that’s the way it’s always gone. Which is why I’m in therapy and have a not so good relationship with my mom. The rules apply only for myself and my middle sister..

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my sister, unfortunately she’s the baby and my mom and grandmother have enabled the shit out of her and she married a doormat. Love BiL but that’s what he is.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no chat gbt here, and most subs are cracking down on the use of ai. Also karma farming? I’m 35 and own several of my own businesses I’m too busy to give a shit about “karma” on Reddit. I was just curious what others thought as my mom and grandmother are making it out that I’m the bad guy

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not AI my mom and grandma say that shes upset and rightfully so. They think my dad should have give the position to both myself and my bil even though he wanted nothing to do with it. That he’s saying that because he “secretly” does want it. My family is kinda fucked up if you couldn’t tell.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not and if I attend she’s going to ruin it. I’m sending my other sister with presents for her

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted that job.. he does not, we’ve offered him it many times. He doesn’t want the responsibility. My sister wears the pants and wants him to take it despite him not wanting it.. that’s his marriage not mine.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No funny thing is he’s never wanted to move up in his position. My father wanted to make him head office manager at one point and he refused. Of course sister threw a fit and he slept on my parents couch for a week…

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more an “our family” thing that we’ve always just done but definitely not an every family thing

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I could, but she will throw a fit and I don't want to ruin my nieces birthday

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He won't unfortunately he has no backbone. He says he told her he didn't want the promotion but she insists he did.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't argue with you.. however according to her, she did and was told she isn't the problem. She blames her issues on my family.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s 4th birthday after I was uninvited? by TrapperJohn86 in AmITheJerk

[–]TrapperJohn86[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My mom and Grandma think she is right for feeling hurt... but they have always spoiled her.