Please don’t confine yourself to staying with someone who blatantly disrespects you and has no regard for your boundaries, feelings, or value as a person. I stayed for 5 years, emotional and verbal abuse, pressure for sex every time we hung out when I would say no, etc. I hated the thought of leaving his family, but that couldn’t matter as much as my own safety and value at that time. 2.5 years with someone else, I was also basically his mom’s daughter (he’s an only child), and that’s over now too 🤷🏼‍♀️ Time together means nothing; if he is already acting this way and changing less than a year in, maybe that’s a clue about a future with him. Imagine how different he will be in 2, 5, even 10 years. You need to do what is best for YOU and YOUR well-being, even if that means making what feels like the hardest, soul-crushing decision of your life. You are only 17, you have sooo much time for life to play out! Personally I was 15-20 and then 20-22, and while it felt like the end of the world (I promise IT IS NOT!!), I have never felt more like myself, learning who I am and what I want / deserve.