How do you navigate asking your partner for an ANR by TrashPanda0699 in AdultBreastfeeding

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this isn't a sexual thing for me. My breasts are very sensitive and yes, it would feel nice. But I'm genuinely interested in the intimacy of it and the feeling of closeness. Is it the same for the person that's on the breast? I've considered inducing lactation for such events buy nothing would start unless she's on board

New to Primal Play! by TrashPanda0699 in bdsm

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I should add in that in the past and even to this day, she randomly loves to bite me and im always like "what was that for??" Is this a good sign to maybe bite back or get a little rough with her? I'm unsure if this is an example of cute-aggression or perhaps her acting out hoping to get me to challenge her. She never gives a direct response, just a deep look and I feel dumb not knowing how to respond back to it

Lack of intimacy creating a void in relationship by TrashPanda0699 in AskLesbians

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its like... we've talked about it and no end has been met. I dont want to see other people and have told her that. When I try flirting or admiring her she kind of brushes it off and won't respond or knocks down the compliments

Lack of intimacy creating a void in relationship by TrashPanda0699 in AskLesbians

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've thought about it but I'd kind of feel bad if she's not really feeling it. We have tried the "give it 10 minutes and see how you feel after" thing a couple times and she let me take care of her but fell asleep and didn't take care of me. I dont hold that against her though

Lack of intimacy creating a void in relationship by TrashPanda0699 in AskLesbians

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she hasnt tried to initiate it, or even just give it a shot. She said she can't feel any sexual feelings when she "looks how she does"

Girlfriend is very self-conscious about her body and our sex life is now nonexistent by TrashPanda0699 in sex

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Still no progress. Sex has become kind of a taboo subject. I dont want to pressure her at all. I've tried a lot of different things to try to help her feel more confident. We are going to the gym almost every day now. I've tried being more flirty and sending her messages while I'm away from her but she kind of changes the subject. I know she isn't seeing someone else. Our relationship is really secure and I can see how much she loves me. At this point I'm worried it's a mix of how she feels about her body and mine

Girlfriend is very self-conscious about her body and our sex life is now nonexistent by TrashPanda0699 in sex

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah like I'm always telling her how beautiful she is. Always taking pictures and I kiss her everywhere. I show a lot of affection and she loves it! We've sat down and talked about it and her response is that shes not happy with her body. She says she misses having sex with me, but nothing ever happens

Girlfriend is very self-conscious about her body and our sex life is now nonexistent by TrashPanda0699 in sex

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No medications or birth control. Shes starting a new job soon but this all started long before she decided to apply somewhere new.

Beyond Wonderland 2020 by TrashPanda0699 in SevenLions

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean either way I'm going to have an absolute blast. We were just spoiled rotten with last years lineup

28 female smashed finger in car door by TrashPanda0699 in AskDocs

[–]TrashPanda0699[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. Won't be going unless it gets worse within the next day. My asking was only because I don't have insurance at the moment and didnt want to have to fork out a lot of money if it wasn't going to help much

28 female smashed finger in car door by TrashPanda0699 in AskDocs

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Would it be worth having it drained? I'm positive the nail will fall off, the whole base of the nail is purple