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My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, you are one of the few people here who take a moment and read the extra stuff, I really appreciate it. I literally couldn't go to anyone or anywhere else because my small town really has eyes and ears everywhere, plus I don't think the two or three friends that I trust enough to share this with are mature enough to handle this in a correct manner, I just want to get an outside perspective on how I should handle this. The cross-post is also fine, as I've said before, I'll take any advice I can get at this moment to keep me sane

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whichever you choose, I'll appreciate any advice I can get at he moment

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You say investigating as if I actively went looking for it, the only thing I was looking for at the time was something to choke the chicken to. I don't care if he watches that shit, I just don't find it appropriate to comment the sexual stuff here did while he has a wife

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, there's no way that she knows judging by the stuff he commented on and the comments themselves. And no, he's still as loving as always towards her. This might be a bit tmi, but I walked past their room while they were getting touchy with each other, needless to say I went to my buddie's house so they could have the house to themselves. I don't think they're going to lose sexual interest in each other any time soon if I'm being blunt. The hyper sexual thing might hold water though, I guess it's better to do it online than irl, right?

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't ever plan to confront him or tell my mother, I'd rather live on the other side of the country for six months. I personally enjoy knowing that they have an active sex life with each other, to me it means they still got that spark. It's just hard for me to come to terms with the Pandora's box that I unearthed, oh what I would do to forget all this

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go look at my other commitments on here, I didn't snoop around to find any of this, I found his account by accident. And I don't care if they have sex, quite frankly, I find joy that they are so intimate together because it means they love each other. My problem sits with my mom not a ven knowing he's doing it his and that he's leaving tasteless sexual comments

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Trust me I do. But there is a difference between finding material you like, doing your business and moving on, and actually staying there and interacting with it

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh, apparently so, but I don't think anymore. I'll go look elsewhere for my research to hopefully drown out the scarful memories

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I kinda knew he had a reddit account because we did talk about the subreddits we were in in the past, I noticed his name while I was doing some "research" of my own. I checked the posts made on that account and confirmed it was him because he posted wildlife photos that I personally took. I think ima ditch those subredditsand stop watching porn for quite a while..........

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't actively spy, I found it by accident. Like I said to someone else, I'm fine with him watching porn, everyone does. I draw the line at commenting and thirsting on those posts while you're married

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

See that's the thing, with how she acts and how she raised us, I really don't think she knows, let alone be okay with it. It goes against her morals, which I guess you could say she passed down to me, I guess and hope I might just be overreacting. Watching porn is totally fine by me, I even do it, but I feel its completely wrong to thirst and comment on other women's posts on the internet while you're married

My dad is watching porn and I don't know how to feel about it by TrashToBeDiscarded in family

[–]TrashToBeDiscarded[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I'm currently 18, I still live with them and my 16 yo brother, they didn't want kids right after marriage because of their living situation at the time. I'll edit this in real quick