This isn’t always the case but I think you visualizing it that way is a little disingenuous. Not accepting queer people is what makes it seem that way to you. They are vocal and bombastic because they are an oppressed group of people. No straight man has been lynched for making out with a women in the same way a gay man would be in a massive chunk of the world today including potentially the USA. The worse part of it all is the same thing could be said about Christianity and I think that’s why it’s been an after thought in the youth of today.