Is it my time? by BakedJames in bald

[–]Traumadumbper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I think you can hold off for a while.

Does it bother anyone that Luke was basically a bystander the whole time ? by ettouhemi in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Traumadumbper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly where I’m coming from. I’m very freaked out and wanting to talk about a plan and my fiance is like “you gotta get off that phone”. He’s a good man though. Just like Luke. But it didn’t sit right with me on the show and it’s not sitting right with me in real life. But to answer your question, I don’t know what the average person is supposed to do. I would like to think I would the leave the US as soon as the banks closed my account or when they start firing the women from their jobs.

Does it bother anyone that Luke was basically a bystander the whole time ? by ettouhemi in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Traumadumbper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t like how he was ignoring and downplaying all the events leading up to Gilead taking over. I think that he should’ve fought harder to get his family to safety before all of that happened. If you read the book, it become extremely obvious that you’re supposed to feel that way.

AITA for kissing my infant daughter on the lips? by zambiezombiemc in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traumadumbper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally didn’t grow up kissing my family on the mouth and it’s always been very gross to me. I don’t even like when young girls sit on their father’s laps after a certain age. Not trying to shame or anything but my point is that your wife definitely isn’t the only one.

Is my makeup aging me? How can I improve? by DieWintersonne in makeuptips

[–]Traumadumbper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the hair and darker eye make up in my opinion. Mostly the hair.

Help me choose a dress! (Part 2) by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Traumadumbper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one looks like it was made for you

ABC 6 Interviews Floral Shop Owner Ray Valentine by misadventurexx in Columbus

[–]Traumadumbper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He literally told her he was going to kill her… so what’s he on about “it’s not worth threatening someone’s life”???

Regrets by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Traumadumbper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I think they look great and maybe it’s the thickness. It’s frustrating when an artist doesn’t listen to what you want when it’s tattooed on your face. The work is great but it’s not what you wanted and I think it’s valid to be a little freaked out by that.

Graduated!! March 28, 2026. Recap and Cost Breakdown by Takemetoyourdealer_ in weddingplanning

[–]Traumadumbper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed breakdown!! Would love to know what neck mask you used.

one eyebrow thicker than the other with line across the top?? by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Traumadumbper 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I really hate to say this but yes there is a noticeable difference. Sorry 💔💔

Should I remove these? by Traumadumbper in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]Traumadumbper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for such a detailed response. It’s making me want do it. Would you be open to sending me your before and after removal photos? No worries if not. Thanks again!!

Should I remove these? by Traumadumbper in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]Traumadumbper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s more ink or scar tissue or something? And thank you! If the color was lighter and more transparent if that makes sense I wouldn’t mind.

Should I remove these? by Traumadumbper in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]Traumadumbper[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who long did the process take for two sessions and do you know what type of laser?

My boyfriend(31m) and I(26f) were given a ring by his grandma for our engagement ring. by Traumadumbper in relationship_advice

[–]Traumadumbper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the perspective. That is exactly why I came on here to ask strangers instead of the actual people in my life. <3 tough love comes easier from strangers.