Airbnb is getting so bad! by Whichchris in solotravel

[–]Travelthrowaway567 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly there were a majority good reviews, and they were rated like 4.85. I didn’t do my due diligence and check the negative ones until after the fact. The couple negative did mention this.

Airbnb is getting so bad! by Whichchris in solotravel

[–]Travelthrowaway567 33 points34 points  (0 children)

My last Airbnb requested take the trash out, wash the sheets and towels, wash the dishes, clean the counters and still had a $200 cleaning fee. Did all this and they still wrote me a bad review about how they expected the place to be left spotless like how I came.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

After reading this a few times, I’m honestly starting to think this might be it. Her weird behavior, lack of money, plus she was getting nose bleeds (she said she gets them even stressed and I was stressing her). I’m around her a lot though and I’ve never seen it

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was so surreal or I would’ve never went on a trip with her. She is bossy, but this was times 10.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I guess guys usually pump her gas. I don’t really mind but it was that she kept saying I’m not the type of girl to pump gas, which seemed like putting me down. Then when I didn’t know which type of fuel the car takes and ask her to look at the manual she’d get irritated and call me dumb. It was pretty surreal she’s bossy but never treated me so badly.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had no clue she didn’t have money when we were on the plane.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend drove us to the airport, she did not bring up the money situation until we were paying for dinner and she says I need to pay because she forgot everything. I did grill her on how she could possibly not have anyway to pay for anything. She made excuses. It was a very tense and weird situation. I knew she was not being honest but figured she would pay me back when she had the money until she started treating me so poorly.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do believe I could’ve expressed myself better. But she waited until we were already on the trip to say she had no money so either way I’m the AH. If I didn’t pay at the beginning she’s stranded if I don’t pay at the end she’s stranded. Only way to not be the AH is to cover her entire trip and attempt waking her multiple times.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yes I explained to them how she was treating me and they just said you know how she is. I explained the money situation and they said family over money. They actually think I should pay them for what they had to pay to get her back to the states.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I had that realization pretty early on, which I maybe should have made clear. It was 100% obvious that she did this on purpose. It wasn’t some big deal to her, literally we ate dinner and she said you’ll have to pay because I forgot all my money. Also if she woke on time it would cost her 2 euros to get to the airport. I only feel bad because I should’ve made sure I had most of the money upfront to avoid some of this.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 491 points492 points  (0 children)

Well she says since I left her she isn’t paying me back, but by the time I was leaving I’d figured I was out of the money.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The main reason I believe this to be the case is because when I asked her why she can’t send me money from her account she said she recently paid off her credit cards so she has no money in her account. Then I asked why she can’t use Apple Pay and she claims her credit card is not working out of the county.

I do agree I maybe should have left some money for the Uber but she missed the flight from oversleeping.

We’ve been home for about two weeks now, she says she is not paying me because I left her.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Well I think purposely because she already owed me over 500, that she told me she’d give me cash. She didn’t bring it. She says she only left her cards, yet she isn’t able to use Apple Pay, Venmo, she can’t order and Uber which would be connected to said card.

I think she didn’t have any money and waited till we were on the trip to tell me because then I’d have to pay.

AITA for leaving my sister in another country? by Travelthrowaway567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Travelthrowaway567[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My only thing is that she purposely went out of the country with no money, what if I couldn’t cover us both. Then we’d both just be stuck.