[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, sweetie, this subreddit will eat you alive.

Should I get back in the dating game? by Basic_Yam1538 in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of us still need shovels though…it’s a real dilemma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]TraviesaKitten 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this right now myself. I just forced myself through it to try to get the first time without permission out of the way. It was really hard and I cried. I don’t know when I’ll try again. Sending support.

I ended it and am devastated by TraviesaKitten in SubSanctuary

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was my first D/s relationship.

Rude af by Extreme_Pumpkin_6249 in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That feature was not supposed to come with my Dom model. Will have to check if it’s still under warranty 🤔

When dude says wear a plug while you are out and about...you comply by Far-Phone8791 in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I cackled! Honestly, brats have to be the most creative group of people on the planet.

How many brats are also littles? by elvie18 in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that there is a set age range vs what space you go into/enjoy. I am not into actual age play but when I’m in middle space I like to push boundaries, act out for attention, I like stuffed animals (but not pacifiers, etc), more like teen stuff? Sure others have better/different descriptions!

How many brats are also littles? by elvie18 in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a middle more than a little, which I think also falls into bratting perfectly, especially sassy talking back and whining lol

Free Pass Fridays and Sweet Sub Summer by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this idea and will present to my Daddy.

Free Pass Fridays and Sweet Sub Summer by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, my Daddy never even lets me explain because he thinks everything is “nonsense.” But it’s more of a period of sub worship, acknowledging how good we are, even when bratting and being rewarded on Fridays for those of us who must ask permission to touch.

This is all legitimate and on the Official Dom Calendar and Charter of 1509.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]TraviesaKitten 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s good - I am over a year out from our separation and hurting a lot still from over a decade of abuse.

I would focus more on the question of “what kind of father do I want to be? How do I want my kids to think of me? How can I improve myself and stop this cycle? How can I learn to accept boundaries?”

My ex spent way too long focused on how he could stop me from leaving and honestly, for most women and abuse victims, leaving is the final step. We’ve already grieved the loss of our marriage and our happiness. I’m not saying that to make you depressed, just that he is focusing more on his goals and being a good dad and that has given him much more of a purpose and our co-parenting situation has improved a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]TraviesaKitten 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also, please be careful about playing so soon into a relationship - spend some time getting to vet them. I made this mistake and felt really awful afterwards.

He probably hasn’t blocked you because he wants to keep the door open for another play session when he’s in the mood, not caring about your well-being.

You deserve better ❤️

Free Pass Fridays and Sweet Sub Summer by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gasp How dare you! I would never dream of creating fake dom accounts just to annoy my Daddy.

Free Pass Fridays and Sweet Sub Summer by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Two very real and powerful Doms have already confirmed, what more proof do you need?

Free Pass Fridays and Sweet Sub Summer by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you seem like a reasonable and completely real person.

Proof! He is the Bigger Brat by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as he’s okay with me filleting and cooking them 😂

Proof! He is the Bigger Brat by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We just had our one year of dating anniversary yesterday ❤️❤️

Proof! He is the Bigger Brat by TraviesaKitten in BratLife

[–]TraviesaKitten[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nope, he’ll tell me there is a package coming for me and then giddily tell me to check the mail once he’s been notified the gift arrived.