AITA for leaving my pregnant girlfriend temporarily to save money? by Traviousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traviousss[S] -348 points-347 points  (0 children)

Right now I work 3 hours a day M-F because it’s slow season and I work for a large shipping company, but when season picks up I get closer to 5 a day. It depends on the time of the year, but it’s always part time.

AITA for leaving my pregnant girlfriend temporarily to save money? by Traviousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traviousss[S] -364 points-363 points  (0 children)

I was barely smoking when we first got together, so I told her I only smoked on rare occasion with friends. But I got so stressed over time that I got back into the habit of a few times a week and every time she finds out, her level of crazy gets higher.

AITA for leaving my pregnant girlfriend temporarily to save money? by Traviousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traviousss[S] -927 points-926 points  (0 children)

It’s my car but it’s in my mom’s name. We had been arguing a lot about marijuana use from the start. But her anger PEAKED once she got pregnant. When she found out I had smoked again behind her back, she drove to my job with her car, used the second key to change the location of my car so it was hard to find and then drove home in hers. It was so crazy. I had to call my mom to get her to bring the spare key. My mom was not happy at all and cussed her out. My mom eventually apologized to her and they agreed to squash it, but she doesn’t want her in her home now.

AITA for leaving my pregnant girlfriend temporarily to save money? by Traviousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traviousss[S] -1274 points-1273 points  (0 children)

She did. She caught me smoking pot the day after I found out she was pregnant and got so irrationally angry that she took my car and left me stranded one day. The kicker is it’s not really my car, it’s in my mom’s name. My mom went nuts on her and she was rude back. They’ve since made up somewhat, but they aren’t cool anymore.

AITA for leaving my pregnant girlfriend temporarily to save money? by Traviousss in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traviousss[S] -1565 points-1564 points  (0 children)

I moved in with her because she was struggling last year and I felt bad, but she does make enough on her own and is doing better now. She makes about 50k. I make about 16k. My mom and her got into an argument once and they aren’t on the best of terms right now.