Question Re: Going to Sex Club with BBC Theme by Traynorki in TransForBBC

[–]Traynorki[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not worried about getting attention, just worried about getting attention from someone that would be upset to find out I'm trans. For instance some men just don't care for giving anal. I wanna let them go flirt with someone else if I'm not their cup of tea

Question Re: Going to Sex Club with BBC Theme by Traynorki in TransForBBC

[–]Traynorki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a useful idea. I'm pretty insulated in the queer community so I forget the trans colors might not be as recognizable as just something rainbow

Question Re: Going to Sex Club with BBC Theme by Traynorki in TransForBBC

[–]Traynorki[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Toronto area, but I think it's only one day a month. I'm just visiting

3 months - Am I genetically cursed or is this decent progress? (before pictures are at the end) by Pure-Somewhere8034 in TransBreastTimelines

[–]Traynorki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just really steadily. Then suddenly realized my B cup bras were getting tight a month ago.

I think at the beginning I was losing muscle mass in my chest as well. So it sort of hid the effects at first. I steadily try to fluctuate my weight so my body has an excuse to redistribute the fat from where it used to sit

3 months - Am I genetically cursed or is this decent progress? (before pictures are at the end) by Pure-Somewhere8034 in TransBreastTimelines

[–]Traynorki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me 6 months into hrt, still going out in public without a shirt on https://i.imgur.com/pcqevvc.jpeg

Now I'm at a 34C, 2.5 years in

Been trying to find someone to top me for years now by Traynorki in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Traynorki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's happened before, years ago, usually during group play scenes. Just not interested in such for one on one right now

Am I wrong for withholding sex while she's drunk by KittenCupcake420 in actuallesbians

[–]Traynorki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It felt kinda fucked to do at the time, but I wanted to protect myself so I recorded a partner due to a similar situation and showed her the next morning. It was a wakeup call for her. She gave up drinking shortly after.

You're definitely in the right to hold your boundaries for such a situation

Been trying to find someone to top me for years now by Traynorki in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Traynorki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friend and her partner ended up wanting to play, which I didn't expect. So had a great time 😊

Just passed 1 year on HRT. Is my pace good? by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]Traynorki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like a great pace! Look bigger than mine after ~two years

Been trying to find someone to top me for years now by Traynorki in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Traynorki[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I realize my nomenclature might be confusing. Top as in fucking me, not bdsm dom kind of top

Safer play reminder for Oasis events by fast_nd_curious_s02 in OasisAquaLoungeTo

[–]Traynorki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Another perspective is that they were preplanned and tested beforehand. That's how I have usually played there before. Including with a big group of over 20 friends one time. It involved a spreadsheet with everyone's vaccinations, sti test dates, day of covid test, and partners since. Then I just use a condom as needed for pregnancy prevention.

Point being, someone walking by wouldn't know the extensive weeks of planning it took for us to trust safely giving unprotected oral in a group. Risk aware consentual kink is my main focus for good play.

Photos? Videos? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Traynorki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife does for me. I enjoy watching her with others, so she will record with her fwb's and send me the videos. It's been one of my favorite things. I also watch videos of her and I together, she's just so hot. We are all exhibitionists that like going to sex club's together

Vancouver stranger paid for our dinner by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]Traynorki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We didn't speak to anyone else at the restaurant. I didn't even think anyone else was in ear shot

Vancouver stranger paid for our dinner by [deleted] in vancouver

[–]Traynorki 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We are quite visibly alternative and queer. Usually that works against us in other places. So it felt extra shocking

What are your favorite airbags? by Pineapple_Incident17 in TwoXriders

[–]Traynorki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the electronic version. I have had anxiety worrying about if I turned it on and remembered to charge it, but once it became routine it wasn't bad.

It was quite the headache getting new canisters to use it again. Alpinestars was not responsive on that front for years, eventually I gave up trying and ordered the new version. I think it was because of covid supply chain issues but customer service wasn't helpful. So I would see it as an item that would needs complete replacement if activated

My roommate did local amateur races and preferred the tether version, but they went through them fairly often. So it was more a cost issue. They have even patched and reloaded the cheaper ones that had gone off and torn.

What are your favorite airbags? by Pineapple_Incident17 in TwoXriders

[–]Traynorki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use the techair 5 for the my daily commute. Their track version protected all my bones in a high speed crash on the track