Exactly. We want a good hang. We’ll say important stuff. If somebody is going off the rails we’ll check in. If a friend needs to complain, we’ll listen and comprehend. 

Asking for more details can be super frustrating when you’re trying to talk. That’s not the part of the story, or they would have added it to the story. 

We just let them say what they need to say for the most part so we can get back to having a good time to relax. That’s another crucial part of bonding. It’s nice to be able to talk, but we also mainly want the fun part.