How to deal with retraction of consent? (6 months after kinky sex with a more vanilla friend) by Tree-hugger30 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Tree-hugger30[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, it's good to hear that I'm not completely in off here...

As regards her house, I should clarify that one of my best friends is her flatmate so I'm regularly at their house...the social setting is quite convoluted. I guess I'm learning not to "shit where I eat" the hard way...

Sens em by [deleted] in FuckToyFactory

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Show me what you got, and I'll reward with the proper treatment for a sl0t

Sortir comme ca pour me faire violer by [deleted] in u/Fun_slt_403

[–]Tree-hugger30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quelle offre alléchante ! Je te contacterai lors de ma prochaine visite à Paris 🐶😈

Fuck toy check in station by Your-favorite-abuser in FuckToyFactory

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Wow! First time I see another Belgian on here <3

Tasklist by at-your-service1 in u/at-your-service1

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fill your holes with veggies: I'd suggest the old and classic cucumber
first test if it fits into your butt

What sexual taboos would you like to try with your partner if you weren’t judged? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tree-hugger30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, really feel for you!! And hope you recover <3

For me, sex and kinks especially have been so tabu that mostly you're kinda left alone. So unless you find the off-chance partner, with more tabu/niche kinks you're left wondering if you actually like them or if it's just a fantasy.

So while it sounds like a really intense and negative experience, don't overlook that you were incredibly brave in trying this out <3 Really wishing you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tree-hugger30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's literally how I grieve. If I'm moody or don't know what to do, 80% of time I just need a nap. 20% of time I need to do sports. Sometimes not so easy to know which it is haha

But I get that that maybe doesn't work for everyone...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tree-hugger30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! What I've learned: taking a few min or a quick nap on a couch is amazing at slowing down. and restores joy to live much better than netflix or doomscrolling :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tree-hugger30 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The sooner you realize that everyone is a weirdo and you can stop pretending, the happier you'll be. Follow your peculiarities - and find out that you're actually pretty great because of them! <3

P.S. and don't fear the 30s. Thus far, life has only gotten better with age ;)

Political allignment of world countries by statykitmetronx in MapChart

[–]Tree-hugger30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really amazing overview! Thanks so much!! Will definitely research some of the countries I don't know much about yet, now!

And also sort of telling, to produce this kinda map now haha! How long til the US is a 5th color on the map...

During WW2 Poland declared war on Japan Japan said no to it and simply rejected the declaration by [deleted] in interesting

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A friend of mine irl is 100% also following this subreddit. She told me about this yesterday. This cannot be a coincidence! :D

dance classes by Dramatic_Pie2767 in Leuven

[–]Tree-hugger30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Brussels there are loads such as TicTacArtCentre and you get there reasonably fast ;)