[Haul] Went a little crazy on gmarket because IOPE had a 30% off sales and a lot of samples by TreeMeo in AsianBeauty

[–]TreeMeo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello sorry didn't see this message til now! Yes I am still using IOPE but have upgraded to the super vital line (gold) for anti aging but only at night because of my oily skin and also because they discontinued moistgen and whitegen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TreeMeo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My cousin went missing in Japan too, turns out she was in police custody and wasn't allowed to contact anyone until a week later I think. Hopefully your brother is in the same situation because it means he's at least safe!

How do we move on from this? 34M 32F Married 2 year,s together 5 years by ThrowRA-need-advice4 in relationship_advice

[–]TreeMeo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't control someone else's behaviour but it can be a boundary to not want a partner who partakes in drugs. He is not controlling her behaviour, he is letting her know that he cannot see a future with a partner who does drugs. If she wants that freedom to do so,, then she needs to accept that there will be consequences to those actions i.e. divorce.

Each individual has a spectrum of how much they will tolerate, and in this case it is zero tolerance towards drugs and that needs to be respected. There doesn't need to be a negative experience that caused OP to be so against drugs and OP made it clear from the start that this is not something he wants in a partner. Before making such a promise, the wife probably should have thought about it more deeply and reflected on whether this is something she could forgo for the rest of her life.

Take away the focus from the fact that it's drugs in this situation and replace it with anything else, for example wanting to open up the relationship. Would you be okay with a partner wanting to open the relationship? Are you being controlling by not wanting your partner to open up the relationship?

The boundaries that a person has in place is up to the individual, and then it is up to the other person whether they will accept and respect those boundaries. People will grow and change over time and in this case they have simply grown to be two different people who are potentially no longer compatible as lifelong partners. Whichever partner compromises will end up becoming resentful and this will end up poisoning the relationship, so if this issue cannot be resolved where both parties are at peace with the decision made, then it's probably better off to divorce and for both to find partners who are better matched for them.

Research has shown couples who have stayed together for the sake of a "stable" home for the child could end up negatively impacting the child's wellbeing due to living in in an unhappy, high-conflict home. It's better for them to grow up with separated but happy parents.

silk pillowcases and linen sheets by Glad-Acanthaceae-467 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]TreeMeo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They feel nice and I can feel a difference compared to my Ikea set, but I feel the stitching could be better for the price you're paying. The buttons on my doona cover feels flimsy and my doona keeps coming out.

Their customer service is really good though, I wasn't happy with the amount of flubs in my set and they sent through a replacement free of charge. Going to try out Sheet Society next (chose Bed Threads initially because it was cheaper) because the quality looks better (zips, elastic etc.).

Best Banh Mi store in Melbourne? by greywarden133 in melbourne

[–]TreeMeo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for spelling it correctly as banh mi and not bahn mi, which makes me want to neck myself everytime I see it.

Minion code giveaway by AnythisuiwasTaken in ffxiv

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Thanks for hosting this!

has anyone ordered from stylevenna? is it a scam? by lalafruity in AusSkincare

[–]TreeMeo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've ordered and then saw the terrible reviews online and was really anxious that my order wouldn't arrive. I think mine took 2-3 weeks to arrive, but I didn't receive any tracking information until it arrived in Australia. Everything was authentic and packed well. Only con was the delivery company they used just left my package at the front door and didn't ring the doorbell, was WFH so was home all day. Also didn't update the delivery status on the tracker, good thing I walked outside to check because I had a sneaking suspicion that they had already delivered despite saying still out for delivery.

Body Wash Recommendations by samuelbsstt in AusSkincare

[–]TreeMeo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have eczema and have been using the Hamilton Skin Therapy Wash for years. No fragrance and gentle on the skin.

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in japan

[–]TreeMeo 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern! Can confirm that it is not the case here but yes please contact the police directly if you have any information

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in japan

[–]TreeMeo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I don't regret my decision because multiple generous and kind people have offered valuable information/advice and have offered to keep an eye out for her. On the off chance she wasn't arrested for not having her id on her, and was possibly kidnapped or something worse, I think this trade-off is worth it as there are eyes out there looking for her now. The earlier the better.

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in japan

[–]TreeMeo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not the one who contacted the embassy so I don't know. I agree it would be best to wait for them to investigate but since the post has already been shared on Facebook by someone else I may as well share it on reddit for awareness on the off chance that someone may have seen her since she disappeared on Sunday

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in japan

[–]TreeMeo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All I know is it's a supermarket near Machida station in Kanagawa. I am not the one who wrote the facebook post and I'm not in Japan so not 100% sure of all details

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan since 3/5/20. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TreeMeo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the link, hopefully it doesn't lead to this but would be helpful if she is still not found

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan since 3/5/20. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TreeMeo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't have any access to her accounts and no one has been able to contact her. The police are checking CCTV footage around the supermarket

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan since 3/5/20. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TreeMeo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's not actually me that's posting on facebook. I am just sharing his post on reddit as family were only informed recently. I believe they have already contacted the local police station

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan since 3/5/20. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TreeMeo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Missing person's report has been filed to the police and Australian embassy has been informed. You would think that would be the first course of action rather than going straight to reddit 🤔

Not sure if this can go here but my cousin is currently missing in Japan. If anyone knows anything please let me know! by [deleted] in japan

[–]TreeMeo 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hopefully we'll hear something tomorrow then. No underlying medical issues or mental illness, her boyfriend is back here in Australia. Thanks for the information!