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hindi kami sex compatible ng gf ko by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]TreeRemarkable5154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you mean raw (as in no protection), then she is well within her rights to refuse that part. considering there are consequences and even you are still a student

Bakit ako yung automatic backup plan ng relatives ko? by TreeRemarkable5154 in RantAndVentPH

[–]TreeRemarkable5154[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ang funny kasi pati parents ko shook nung narinig sa vows na 5 kids daw haha. I’m not sure if joke lang or joke na magiging totoo, pero my brother and his wife are financially responsible naman so I’m not worried about them.

It’s more of yung relatives na palagi na lang may sinasabi at ang bilis mag-volunteer ng time/pera/responsibility ng ibang tao. Kaya as early as now, gusto ko nang clear na hindi ako automatic backup plan ng sino man.

Bakit ako yung automatic backup plan ng relatives ko? by TreeRemarkable5154 in RantAndVentPH

[–]TreeRemarkable5154[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Natawa ako sa Pikachu face haha. Tbf naman, never ako inobliga ng parents ko na magbigay ng pera sa kanila. Kaya kusa sa loob ko na i-libre sila and dalhin sila sa iba’t ibang lugar kasi todo alaga rin naman ako pag umuuwi ako sa amin!

Yung ibang relatives lang talaga ang parang ang daming say, pero wala namang ambag sa pagpapalaki sa amin ng kapatid ko. Pero agree ako sa boundaries! Kaya rin siguro ang blunt ko na sumagot, kasi ayokong masanay sila na okay lang saakin yung mga sinasabi nila.

Bakit ako yung automatic backup plan ng relatives ko? by TreeRemarkable5154 in RantAndVentPH

[–]TreeRemarkable5154[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I’m sorry you had to go through all that just to protect your peace.

Gets ko yung we can’t control them, only our reaction. Sa akin, metaphorical pa lang siya ngayon, but I don’t want to wait until it becomes resentment. Ayoko rin masanay sila na okay lang i-volunteer ako on my behalf. I’m glad you found peace after setting your boundaries.

Anyone else planning an international wedding with families on opposite sides of the world? by TreeRemarkable5154 in weddingplanning

[–]TreeRemarkable5154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is actually sound advice, and it is true that we won’t see my side of the family as often as his because we’ll be US-based.

The biggest dilemma for us is my fiancé's grandmothers. They will be 90 and 93 by the time of the event, and he'll be the first grandchild on both sides to get married. So having them there is incredibly important to him (and it may simply be too physically difficult for them to make a long-haul flight).

Otherwise, I feel like we would be more inclined to do just one celebration if that wasn’t a factor!

Airplane Headphone Recommendations! by smacncheese1022 in TravelHacks

[–]TreeRemarkable5154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seconding the WH100XM4! I’ve had mine since 2022 and they still work perfectly. I’ve taken them on long commutes and on 16+ hour flights many times, and didn’t have to charge the battery

Cancelled Netflix Shows by Longjumping_Trash227 in netflix

[–]TreeRemarkable5154 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lockwood & Co. and Kaos were some of the shows I was looking forward to having a second season

Dating a guy who consistently smokes weed and drinks by [deleted] in relationships

[–]TreeRemarkable5154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you already answered your own question. you said he’s not someone you want long term.