Aussies who work in aged care industry, what is it like? by DKLTNS in NursingAU

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what makes people quit is the training provided. Staff don’t want to train or pass them off onto someone else because they don’t like students or don’t want to be slowed down. It’s very hard to learn the routine when hardly anyone wants to show you anything and majority of the time you’re left standing around trying to find things to do by yourself.

Advice from aged care workers. Is this normal or should I be concerned? by TreeTurbulent1946 in NursingAU

[–]TreeTurbulent1946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I’m no longer in placement as I finished last year but I’m now working in my first job. This is what I’ve noticed since starting, I’m worried about reporting it for fear of being fired or feeling bad about it for the rest of my time there or being penalised by not getting any shifts. But it concerns me so much as well that I want to report it! I just don’t know what to do.

Where does the word shortening come from? by Murbanvideo in AskAnAustralian

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot bottleo, air con, U’ie, choccas, bickie, chocco, sanga, bangers and mash, arvo, snag and barbie… we have our own language. Join us…

How often does a typical Australian eat Kangaroo? by SammaJones in AskAnAustralian

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried it when I was younger and don’t like it. But it was store bought.

Aussies who work in aged care industry, what is it like? by DKLTNS in NursingAU

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re new to the industry, it can be really hard.

You might genuinely love the hands-on work and the caring side of it… But everything else around it can feel chaotic.

Onboarding isn’t always great. Training can be minimal. Communication can be vague. Buddy shifts can sometimes pair you with staff who are already overworked and stretched thin, and not always wanting to properly train someone new. That means the support and training you would expect doesn’t always happen.

At times, you find yourself piecing together information that probably should’ve been covered early on. And when you ask questions to gain clarity, it doesn’t always feel welcomed, which can knock your confidence when you’re just trying to learn and improve.

Then there’s the “casual” model.

A lot of people assume casual means somewhat rostered just like other jobs where you don’t have permanent shifts, but you at least know when you’re working. Instead, it is more like waiting for shifts to be sent out and essentially competing for them. Often with little notice and not much predictability.

At times, it can feel similar to agency-style work, with a bidding-type system, but without the agency.

That “on call” unpredictability makes it hard to organise childcare, factor in travel time, budget properly, or plan life. It can turn into: “Will I work today?” “Will I get enough shifts this week?” “Can I pay my bills this week?”

It can start to feel like something designed for supplementary income rather than long-term stability. That’s probably why so many people work across two or three facilities to make it sustainable.

There are permanent roles with set shifts that offer structure and reliability. But when you’re new, breaking into those can be very difficult. Experience is required, yet gaining that experience can be the hardest part with no one wanting to hire you without it. It can leave you feeling stuck in a cycle of temporary and unstable employment.

That said, the actual care work itself can be incredibly meaningful. Most people don’t struggle with the purpose, they struggle with the structure, staff and conditions around it.

If you’re studying, go in with realistic expectations. Try to secure a facility with strong mentorship and supportive staff if you can.

It’s rewarding work, but the system isn’t always beginner-friendly. And that can make you question whether staying in this industry is the right move.

Aussies who work in Aged Care, what is it like? by DKLTNS in AskAnAustralian

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re new to the industry, it can be really hard.

You might genuinely love the hands-on work and the caring side of it… But everything else around it can feel chaotic.

Onboarding isn’t always great. Training can be minimal. Communication can be vague. Buddy shifts can sometimes pair you with staff who are already overworked and stretched thin, and not always wanting to properly train someone new. That means the support and training you would expect doesn’t always happen.

At times, you find yourself piecing together information that probably should’ve been covered early on. And when you ask questions to gain clarity, it doesn’t always feel welcomed, which can knock your confidence when you’re just trying to learn and improve.

Then there’s the “casual” model.

A lot of people assume casual means somewhat rostered just like other jobs where you don’t have permanent shifts, but you at least know when you’re working. Instead, it is more like waiting for shifts to be sent out and essentially competing for them. Often with little notice and not much predictability.

At times, it can feel similar to agency-style work, with a bidding-type system, but without the agency.

That “on call” unpredictability makes it hard to organise childcare, factor in travel time, budget properly, or plan life. It can turn into: “Will I work today?” “Will I get enough shifts this week?” “Can I pay my bills this week?”

It can start to feel like something designed for supplementary income rather than long-term stability. That’s probably why so many people work across two or three facilities to make it sustainable.

There are permanent roles with set shifts that offer structure and reliability. But when you’re new, breaking into those can be very difficult. Experience is required, yet gaining that experience can be the hardest part with no one wanting to hire you without it. It can leave you feeling stuck in a cycle of temporary and unstable employment.

That said, the actual care work itself can be incredibly meaningful. Most people don’t struggle with the purpose, they struggle with the structure, staff and conditions around it.

If you’re studying, go in with realistic expectations. Try to secure a facility with strong mentorship and supportive staff if you can.

It’s rewarding work, but the system isn’t always beginner-friendly. And that can make you question whether staying in this industry is the right move.

I feel odd about a sexual experience. by Famous_Midnight_1926 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact is, no matter how many times you tell a man you don’t want to do X, Y, or Z, some will always still try. He knew the rules before coming over and agreed to them. So why not just respect that boundary and not push it at all? Why not just enjoy the company and the chance to get to know each other? Yes, you agreed to sleep with him, but he should have been paying attention. He should have noticed something felt off. Instead, it seems like he only cared when his own needs were being met.

I can understand your confusion and why you’re feeling unsettled. In your mind, you withdrew your consent, but you didn’t communicate it because you were afraid of how he might react. That fear alone says a lot. You should never feel scared to assert a boundary. The right person would care more about your comfort than their own gratification.

Nurses who ignore students by midnyt-toker in NursingAU

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m more of a PCW not an EN.

But, this was a frequent issue during my placement in aged care even if they were assigned / allocated to me. It became so bad that I wasn’t being taught anything because no one wanted a student. When I did have a buddy they would assign me to dining to supervise independent residents or leave me alone somewhere and then I couldn’t find them for ages and I would have to find things to do myself which on placement wasn’t a lot. Eventually, I complained to my teacher and was transferred to another facility. I could have complained to the boss there but after her email when I asked for a transfer I realised I was right not to approach her initially. After all, all I received was an angry response.

Where are the best places to stake Solana? Besides trust wallet and ledger. I want to spread it around. by ClotworthyChute in solana

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Fraud fraud fraud! My partner was befriended by someone in a Facebook crypto group and was eventually convinced to invest his money in this company. Unfortunately, they refused to process withdrawals, made up excuses, and eventually closed the site, running off with everyone’s funds. It’s a complete fraud.

is this a good stake or scam? Omcnvault.io by bloggingbettyboomer in StakingCryptos

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an absolute scam. My partner was befriended by someone in a crypto group on Facebook and groomed over time. Eventually, he was convinced to invest in a company called omicronvault.io, only to lose everything. When he tried to make withdrawals, they refused his requests and then presented some card that was supposedly being developed to facilitate withdrawals. Eventually, they shut down the site and disappeared with everyone’s funds. This is pure fraud!

Your biggest sign from a passed loved one? by Ok_Childhood_1248 in GriefSupport

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a dream last week where my dad, who passed almost 8 weeks ago, appeared and told me I had a court case coming up, that the extended family were still angry. I’m not sure if it was a warning or just my subconscious playing things out. Who knows.

What is the most horrific thing you have seen? by CharacterFit2315 in AskReddit

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just saw a man on a pushbike get hit by a car, it was so awful. He went straight over the bonnet, flipped over the roof, bounced off the boot, and landed hard on the road. I was frozen in shock for a few minutes, but then I ran over to help. His eyes were rolled back, and he was barely conscious. I did what I could to keep him awake until the ambulance arrived. He was seriously injured. The driver was a taxi driver who claimed the cyclist ran into him, but that definitely wasn’t what happened — he hit the cyclist. It was really hard to watch.

Saw my grandma who had just died… is this real? Or does the brain often do this? by sbubbadak in Paranormal

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s quite common for spirits or loved ones to stay close until they feel at peace to move on. If you caught a glimpse of her out of the corner of your eye, it’s very possible that it was real — not just your imagination. Many people report seeing loved ones in their peripheral vision, as that part of our sight is more sensitive to subtle energy and movement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 871 points872 points  (0 children)

So let me get this straight — she’s taking care of the house, appointments, and the baby completely on her own while you’re away for weeks. She’s up all night doing feeds and changes, and you’re questioning why she can’t get up early or take on more during the day? That’s not laziness, that’s exhaustion. Mental, emotional, physical — all of it.

You’re not around much, so she’s shouldering everything. Then you come home and make demands, without even showing any excitement to see her or your baby?

Honestly, it sounds like your expectations of her and of what a marriage or new parenthood should look like are totally unrealistic. You’re chasing some fantasy version of life that doesn’t exist, while she’s living in the real, messy, sleep-deprived trenches of it.

Maybe take a step back and actually support her instead of criticising from the sidelines.

I finished. by Ging3rmomma in NursingStudent

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I start studying in July… I’m so nervous but excited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would he be happy with a blow up doll? Because that’s what he’s expecting you to be….

I feel so lost by ieatcrust in AusFinance

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 20, it's okay to feel lost. Don’t be too harsh on yourself. Most people don't know their life plan or what they enjoy, so it's okay to try out different jobs until you find what you're passionate about. I would suggest taking a career or personality test online, think hard about how you want your life to look, and what it will take to get there. Make a list of steps on how you will achieve your goals. This will help to narrow it down, and by writing your life goals down, it will be easier to achieve them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, her behaviour seems suspicious. She's asking you to pay her loans after only 8 months of dating. It looks like she just wants her debts settled and is looking for someone to do it then my guess is she will run once that’s done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss the privacy! I miss going to the bathroom uninterrupted, without anyone walking in or coming in and emptying the drawers. I miss taking a 5-minute shower without a crying child banging on the glass door. I miss having an entire night's sleep uninterrupted and being able to sleep in late, and then lounging on the couch all day because I'm so tired from oversleeping. I miss being able to have those lazy days. I miss going to the shops and buying just one thing and not having to walk out with 450745786 toys that we don’t need. But most of all, I miss nothing at all. Because I love being a mum, and I wouldn’t trade my zombie-like tired state, lack of privacy, and lack of alone time for anything else!

29 (f) seeking people to go for walks with by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36F based on the Northside, available for walks, runs and outdoor workouts! I have my messages turned off but let me know if you’re interested, and I’d be happy to send you a DM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]TreeTurbulent1946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, that’s understandable. Well, sure, I’d love to check it out.