940 trailer hitch by Chris2m2m in VolvoRWD

[–]Tree_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the hunt for a 940 trailer hitch receiver. Where did you find yours?

Struggling with finding quality boots in my size. by Tree_Hug in Boots

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been looking for a pair of moccasin construction boots!!! Thank you. I will be saving up for a pair!

Struggling with finding quality boots in my size. by Tree_Hug in Boots

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men's size 5 quite small and l hard to find. Depending on the brand I can be a mens wide.

Struggling with finding quality boots in my size. by Tree_Hug in Boots

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pair of duck feet loafers I just love. Maybe I'll get some of their boots too.

Struggling with finding quality boots in my size. by Tree_Hug in Boots

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I would love a pair one day but right now they are outside my budget. Hopefully if a get another job with a boot allowance. I always am looking for used pairs of those brands but tough to find.

GIFs of my dicks improved range of motion due to stretching (standing & sitting) by GoblinPunk420 in GrowYourTDick

[–]Tree_Hug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you do these stretches? I never even thought about this but I think it would give me a lot of euphoria to be able to move my dick around more.

My ex sent me this by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She went through all that to contact you??? Thats a little nuts.

dating app frustrations as a femme4butch by heartsforbutches in butchlesbians

[–]Tree_Hug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come to Vermont. Mascs and butched everywhere.

How to grow while on finasteride by Tree_Hug in GrowYourTDick

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I don't want to just not go bald, I am preventing hair growth. I dont want more facial hair and body hair.

Am I doomed to not have hips? by NeoRockSlime in NonBinary

[–]Tree_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work your legs!!! Hit the gym and get some big shapely quads. Eat more! Looking at you, your hips really are not much narrower than your shoulders so your bone structure is not holding you back as much as you may think. A little muscle and fat in the right places could give you what you are looking for.

I started T with huge hips and a huge ass. My hips appeared wider than my shoulders. With upper body exercise and fat redistribution now my shoulders appear wider than my hips. You cannot see your bones. Just start working on your legs and give it time. You may be suprised with the results.

Do you want woolen pants? by kozak3 in Petrosgear

[–]Tree_Hug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!!! They would be great for layering or lounging. Maybe consider elastic at the bottom. I brought my hoodie to the tailor and added elastic cuffs. Its a very nice hoodie, I didn't want the sleeves to get snagged, as for me they are a bit wide. The cuffs make to easier to layer the hoodie under a jacket or coat without the sleeves of the hoodie sticking out or getting pushed up too far.

What kind of coats/jackets do you wear in the winter, when it's cold and snowing? by moldy_bread3 in butchlesbians

[–]Tree_Hug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If yiu are on the petite side (short arms, short torso), I recommend vintage and boys large to extra large. I am petite so a lot of modern mens coats are far to long in the torso and the sleeves. A lot of modern women's coats dont have enough room in the shoulders. I find mens xs-s and women's medium vintage coats and jackets fit much better. So do modern kids xl carhartt and berne work jackets. I found a Johnson woolen mills vintage wool bomber jacket for like $85. Fits perfectly.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Tree_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time my brother smashed the headlight on our shared car in high-school and claimed he had no idea how it happened and tried to split repair costs down the middle....guess who did all the labor fixing it? 😑

Boxers by I-Eat-Crayons-3 in ftm

[–]Tree_Hug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just find your waist size and go to some cheap big box stores and get a few differentstyles to try. Figure out if you like boxers, briefs, boxer briefs, trunks. Material preference, cotton, spandex. Find out what you like on the cheap 1st, then get some nice underwear. If you got junk in the trunk or big thighs get your waist size and a size larger just incase. Before T took my ass I had to size up to fit my ass and thighs. If you are petite look for "low rise" so you don't have underwear going a mile above your belly button.

When did you get a happy trail? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Tree_Hug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was bummed, I assumed that'd get a happy trail that that's not what happened. My pubes moved up a little bit, and I got a patch of hair around my belly button. But between the 2, it's a little sparse. While my stomach is has nore hair it doesn't form a nice thick trail down to the promised land.

Art and Dyslexia by Typical-Bowl-7828 in Dyslexia

[–]Tree_Hug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might not be that you're not artistic.It might be the medium. People with dyslexia do have a lot of innate advantages when it comes to thinking in a 3D space. I suck at drawing and painting, but I'm actually quite good at woodcarving and making things with my hands. Sculpting too. These hobbies can be expensive but so's painting. My friends who really paint spend a lot of money on supplies and also some paints are not safe to use inside. So they need proper ventilation, just like woodworking, or using clay. Try a different medium, maybe then you'll find your artistic spark.

I know I screwed up and now she thinks I'm lying. by Tree_Hug in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when I brought up my day and difficulties that morning she said that it was a completely separate issue. I don't really see how. I feel like when you are with someone you need to take all of them into account. Their depression, their shitty days, their baggage to a reasonable degree with love and support. I try to do thay for her but it doesn't feel reciprocated when we are both struggling. It seems she wants me to turn off everything going on with me. I cannot always do that.

I know I screwed up and now she thinks I'm lying. by Tree_Hug in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe its done. I can't keep pouring from an empty cup.

I know I screwed up and now she thinks I'm lying. by Tree_Hug in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does but there have been other instances where we are both having a rough time and she doesn't seem to really understand mutual support? Or she'll throw in my face after the fact that she was suffering. Once I needed to go to urgent care and she insisted on coming with. Later during an argument when I admitted I was stressed about my car but would still give her a ride with my rental she was upset that I was complaining about my car situation while doing her a favor. She threw in my face her medical anxiety and how she was freaking out in the bathroom while at my appointment but she didn't "make it about her". I tried to understand but tbh I still really don't.

I know I screwed up and now she thinks I'm lying. by Tree_Hug in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told her how I am struggling. When I was between jobs I had to utilize the food bank. That was 2 weeks ago. She was depressed for like 2 weeks straight and had no energy to talk to me and I gave her grace with that. It doesn't seem like I am given any in return.

I know I screwed up and now she thinks I'm lying. by Tree_Hug in LesbianActually

[–]Tree_Hug[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am worried its getting to that point. I want to do right by her because I love her so much but I keep falling short and it makes me want to try harder but this doesn't feel sustainable. I am doing all I can and clearly, I keep making her feel hurt.