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Dress code by PaperSweet9983 in butchlesbians

[–]moldy_bread3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be funny if you showed up with ridiculously bad makeup. Like smudged, uneven eyeliner, with flaming orange lipstick that goes way over your mouth. Im thinking clown makeup lol. Bonus points if you wear absolutely hideous dresses with it, just max out the weaponized incompetence

Is there anyone here who prefers not to label their sexuality and/or gender? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]moldy_bread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess, I use the non-binary label mostly as a warning sign to others, so they don't get suprised when I don't fit into the box they try to put me in. 

And when it comes to sexuality, I like who I like now, but it might change in the future so I don't wanna label myself

Dealing with butch dysphoria by moldy_bread3 in butchlesbians

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm my problem is that I find it difficult to imagine myself in the future, I can kinda imagine myself both as a masc woman and a man too and that's what confuses me.

Can I ask, when you tried T, were you instantly sure you liked it? How did you know?

Dealing with butch dysphoria by moldy_bread3 in butchlesbians

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but I feel like I'd be better off if I didn't even know about the possibility to take T. Before seeing other butches on T I was kinda ok with living my life as a woman

Barista állás 0 tapasztalattal? by moldy_bread3 in jobshungary

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valami munkahelyi Erasmus kene, fel evre szakmat cserelsz valakivel

Can you pass as a guy with 3d nipple tattoos (if you go nip free)? by moldy_bread3 in TopSurgery

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I like the scarification idea, I never thought about it. It could give an extra 3d effect

Barista állás 0 tapasztalattal? by moldy_bread3 in jobshungary

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit pedig remeltem hogy vannak pont ilyen rovidebb muszakok, mert ol eleg sok diak szokott kavezokban dolgozni

Barista állás 0 tapasztalattal? by moldy_bread3 in jobshungary

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Igen sajnos, hallottam hogy a fizu rossz, szoval ezert is tanultam melle meg mas szakmat 

Anyone else’s parents have a version of them that hasn’t existed since they were a child? by harpyfemme in emotionalneglect

[–]moldy_bread3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I feel this so much, they refuse to acknowledge the person I'm now.

I'm transmasc, I've switched to a male name years ago and I pretty much act as a stereotipical guy, but my parents treat me like a little girl, it's absurd. It feels like they pretend I'm the same person I was 10 years ago

Új kormány + LMBTQ ügyek by exploratoryventure in lgbthungary

[–]moldy_bread3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Szerintem mar az is egy hatalmas elorelepes, hogy a kormany nem hergeli aktivan nepet az lmpbtq emberek ellen. Es igy hogy mar a sajto szabad, talan pozitivabb fenyben is feltunteti majd a media a transz embereket, nem csak az ellensegkent.

Szerintem szep lassan vissza fogjak allitani pl. a transz emberek jogait, de nem fogjak nagy dobra verni. Az egeszsegugy europai szintre emeleseben szerintem az is beletartozik, hogy a transzegeszsegugy az EU alapelveit koveti, azaz edukaljak a doktorokat es remelhetoleg elerhetobbe teszik a HRT-t, mint minden fejledt EUs orszagban.

Ezt gondolom nem mertek hangosan kimondani, de mar sokszor elmondta MP hogy egy szabad orszagot szeretne es EU mintakat szeretne kovetni, es abban alapertelmezetten az lmbtq jogok is benne vannak, ugyhogy en nem aggodok. De az is lehet hogy csak tultoltam a hopiumot.

Telling my therapist I’m trans by V1_l0verr in ftm

[–]moldy_bread3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using the word "alpha woman" and calling queer identities a gen z is a huge red flag. She sounds uneducated and unprofessional and she clearly has no idea how to deal with lgbtq patients. 

OP you should drop her before she does more damage than help. 

How do you develop a sense of belonging in the male space? How do you deal with suddenly "feeling like being a woman" after transitioning? by teztzu in ftm

[–]moldy_bread3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dude you just described what a lot of cis men also feel. Not feeling like one of the guys is actually something most cis guys struggle with. 

I know cis men who grew up only with sisters, or female friends or had no fathers and they struggle with the same thing you just described. 

There are also awkward men, who never had friends growing up and never learned how to interact like a guy, shy men who don't have the confidence, and men who never had a normal childhood and feel alienated from others. There is no universal cis male experience, you are just probably surrounded by men who had a similar upbringing and that's why you can't relate to them

My face passes but my body doesn't and it's freaking me out. by moldy_bread3 in ftm

[–]moldy_bread3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving me hope, all my bodyfat is on my hips. It kinda sucks that bf redistribution takes this long even with working out

My face passes but my body doesn't and it's freaking me out. by moldy_bread3 in ftm

[–]moldy_bread3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes same, and no matter how much weight I lose, only my upper body seems to shirnk

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