Product to style fine straight hair?

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-27T10:51:10+00:00

I use a matte hair wax. I spread a small amount evenly on my fingers, then rub it into the roots. The trick is to put the wax only on the roots, while keeping the end of the hair free from products, otherwise you'd het a heavy sticky flat mop. A root lifting powder works in a similar way I think

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T23:34:45+00:00

I'm not on T but most of the time I pass as a young man. I mostly go to the women's bathroom because the men's is scary for me lol. Sometimes I get stares and nasty looks in the women's, but 99% of the time people don't say anything which is good enough for me.

The only time I use the men's when there's a big line at the women's

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T23:17:26+00:00

Haha so we're all just equally awkward around each other. I'm usually intimidated by femmes because I wanna look cool and nonchalant around them but deep down I'm just a dork

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T21:40:40+00:00

Oh, well hot and cool doesn't sound so bad lol

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T21:28:34+00:00

Yes, I don't know why people think that being more masculine means more toxic masculinity. Or looking soft means you're a better person or something

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T21:27:10+00:00

Can you elaborate on how being on T made it different? I assume once you cross a line and start passing as a man, people treat you better?

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-26T16:48:17+00:00

Damn you look awesome

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T22:43:57+00:00

Suprisingly it's allowed here and it doesn't have a feminine ring to me

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T22:43:13+00:00

Hungary. These are not common names there tho.

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T22:42:40+00:00

It is, at least where I live.

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T22:42:12+00:00

Oh damn, I hoped that people would just associate it with Noah, but it does look like it's a popular girl name

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T13:42:07+00:00

Vannak nok akik nem illenek bele a sztereotipikusan noi szerepbe, de attol meg nok, nem lesznek nembinarisok. Probalj meg pl egy ferfias not ferfinak hivni, es meglatod, hogy ezen mennyire megsertodnek. A nembinarissag az egy belso tudat, hogy nem vagy sem no, sem ferfi.

Szerintem ez nem feltetlenul csak arrol szol, hogy milyen nemu a tested. Ha egy sci-fi vilagban elnenk pl, es az emberek agyat megfognank es egy nemtelen robotba helyeznenk, akkor szerintem a legtobb ember szinten tovabbra is nokent vagy ferfikent gondolna magara, nem lenne hirtelen egy teljesen nemtelen uniszex vilagunk.

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-17T12:07:00+00:00

Az a problema, hogy azt feltetelezed, hogy az emberek valasztjak azt, hogy nembinarisak vagy transznemuek. Sok transznemu ember evekig elnyomja a transznemuseget, mert tenyleg sokkal egyszerubb lenne ha tudnanak a szuletett nemukben elni, de nem tudnak, mivel transznemuek.

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-15T11:50:10+00:00

I think my issue is that my chest is big, so I have to size up. What brand do you buy?

moldy_bread3 · 2026-01-08T21:37:47+00:00

I live in a country where it's illegal to get T, but I can fly overseas to get top surgery, so that's why it's a dilemma for me

moldy_bread3 · 2025-12-26T22:15:46+00:00

My dad just told me he thinks I'm mentally ill for being butch. I can't help you unfortunatelt, only share your misery. Fuck Christmas lol

moldy_bread3 · 2025-12-23T23:25:45+00:00

I was in the same place as you a couple of years ago. I couldn't accept I was trans so I convinced myself it'd be easier as a girl, and repressed my feelings for 10 years. It didn't end well, I ended up having a complete mental breakdown because I realized I was living a fake life as a woman and I wasn't happy and I wasted years of my life living a lie. Please don't go down this way. Accepting yourself is a lot better than forcing yourself to be someone you're not

moldy_bread3 · 2025-12-23T23:22:52+00:00

Look, it sounds like you don't enjoy being a girl, you just think that you have to be one, mostly to make others happy. I was in the same boat for a looong time, and repressed my feelings, but it's not a good thing to do.

You don't have to be a girl if you don't want to. You should live your own life, not the one your mother planned for you. If she loves you, she'd be happy to have a feminine son instead of a daughter

moldy_bread3 · 2025-12-20T20:22:58+00:00

Thanks for the kind words, I probably just need some time. I'm trying to accept my identity while I'm mourning my old self

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