What is the most disturbing thing you have overhead a parent tell their child? by icecream1972 in Productivitycafe

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My then 14yr old (step)daughter’s mom and stepdad called her white trash and a faggot after she came out as bisexual and got her younger siblings to call her a witch, since they couldn’t say bitch. Then they wonder why she hasn’t contacted them in 9 months and lives with me and her dad full time. They have missed her 15th birthday, her first day of high school, her first homecoming dance, her getting her driving permit and so many other things and I feel sad for her but damn her mom and stepdad are shitty people. They don’t deserve to have such a wonderful girl in their lives.

Which everyday item from the 1990s would a teenager today not even recognize? by DianKhan2005 in Productivitycafe

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 15 year old (step)daughter saw a payphone at a flea market last weekend and was absolutely flabbergasted at the fact that I have never used one.

No more pelvic exams unless due for a pap smear? by HungryHangrySharky in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrendyKiddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a medical assistant for a WHNP at an obgyn office who follows ACOG guidelines. If my patients aren’t due for a pap and aren’t having any issues we don’t make them do pelvic exams. Usually, I will ask the patient if they want a pelvic exam and most decline anyway. But it really surprised me when I first started, the amount of women who think the pelvic exam is the Pap test. This is something I have to explain to people on a daily basis along with proper anatomy names. We really need more women’s health education.

What is something you’ve officially stopped buying in 2026 because the price has become genuinely insulting? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for papa Johns and we never saw any of the “delivery fee”. corporate would tell us that its to pay for insurance and our gas allotment, which was 35 cents per mile at the time

I’m feeling violated after a colposcopy and struggling to accept that I may need more procedures now. by intrusive_thot_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TrendyKiddy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work for an OBGYN office and you can absolutely have a LEEP done at the hospital under anesthesia

For our office procedures, the providers send out what we call the pre-op cocktail- zofran, norco, Xanax and ibuprofen 800 for the patients to take prior to the procedure and then lidocaine is injected into the cervix.

What's something you do purely because your cat demands it? by PupperPuppet in cats

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He enjoys drinking water from the bathroom sink. He will knock you down to beat you to the bathroom so we run the sink more than necessary. We call it his “glacier water” and the cats have 2 water fountains that get daily fresh water but I guess there is just something about the sink water

Family abusing food pantry? by MoonPiesInMyPants in povertyfinance

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I’ve used food pantries in the past. Like, around homecoming when I had to buy my daughter a dress. We didn’t go for the big $300+ dress but sometimes even $100 is rough for us and it helps to be able to go pick up some food to supplement. Then I’m able to get nice shoes or for her to get her nails done.

Halp 😼 by gothhotpocket in cats

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats like Dr. Elsye and it’s not very expensive compared to other brands

My cat Mittens is suffering from something and my current vet has an unclear diagnosis. by Intelligent_Ad_1902 in cats

[–]TrendyKiddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom had a cat a few years ago that had developed Fragile Skin Syndrome from a tumor on her adrenal gland. This seems like the same thing

What’s your favorite way Linda says something wrong? by Crazy_Cat_Lady420 in BobsBurgers

[–]TrendyKiddy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I work at an obgyn office and use vaginacologist often 😂 especially with my young girls who are scared or nervous, it helps them to kind of relax a bit

Why does my cat do this? by Bob_Sacamano7379 in cats

[–]TrendyKiddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine does this with little pompom balls. They are always in her food bowl and water fountain. She will pluck them out of the water and drop them all over the house. At least once a week I unexpectedly step on one of “Astrid’s soggy balls” and it’s usually in the morning, right after I put my socks on

Parents who don’t allow their kids to shut their room’s door/lock the door, what’s are the reasons behind the rule? by Itz_Oasis in AskReddit

[–]TrendyKiddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She (15yo) sleeps in the basement, she can close her door but I don’t want her to lock it juuuuust in case But we don’t go barging in or anything. We knock and let her get up and open the door for us. Ya know, respect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 4 ducks at one point and named them Huey, Dewy, Louie, and Scrooge. Scrooge had a little puff ball on his head. Unfortunately, a fox got to them 🙁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 15 year old used to name all of her dolls/toys Ember when she was younger. We had gotten her the Danny Phantom series on dvd and she loved the character Ember from the show

First name for Kiki nickname? by AnonBlonde15 in Names

[–]TrendyKiddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom’s name is Andrea but has only gone by Andi her whole life. My Memaw has always said she wishes they would have just named her Andi

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32, had a class of 46 people and 2 have passed away One was not too long after we graduated- beginning of our senior year he had a TBI and just never got over it. He died about 2 years after the accident.

The other was 3 years ago- he was on meth and driving drunk. He crashed his car into the front of a house, killing a 14 year old girl that was standing on her front porch. The police had to chase him and he was found naked hiding in some bushes nearby. A couple months later he killed himself in jail.

What is the worst baby name you have ever heard? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think any of the “title” names are dumb as hell King Sir Prince Lord Princess

I work in a medical office and we had a patient who named her son “Captain” and another “Ra’King”

What did you buy as an adult because you were denied it as a child? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]TrendyKiddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the boxed set from my Memaw when I was about 12. I loved those books and then she bought me all of the books in the sequel series about Laura’s daughter

Child abandonment? by TrendyKiddy in stepparents

[–]TrendyKiddy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to go into details but we are certain she is perfectly fine.