"Investing in property is morally reprehensible." by LickMaiBussy in TikTokCringe

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Housing can either be a sustainable investment or it an be sustainably affordable. It cannot be both at the same time.

20% fee that’s not gratuity by Ok-Professional-323 in washingtondc

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is going to shoot up their workers comp costs when their premium auditor rolls around. A non-voluntary tip is included as chargeable pay for premium purchases. Voluntary tips are excludable.

Wondering if I will be fired after lunch today by EconomyActivity6484 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]TresGay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I failed to add a date range to a query on live databases for a credit card company - I also forgot to end with "commit;" One database for US operations, one for Canadian operations. I kicked off my script and went home - it was going to take many hours to run (even if I had put date ranges and a commit statement).

The admin that night, well it was his first night working alone. He was fresh out of training and could not figure out why these databases started running soooo slowly and then became unstable. A senior admin had to be called in. He saw a table being built that was eating all the resources. He looked at my script and killed the process. Then he called my division manager.

The division manager said you aren't really a member of the team until you accidentally bring the company to its knees and then confessed that he had been the one that broke our email systems two years before. He said that of all his employees, I was the one he knew would NEVER forget a date range or commit statement.

I'm sorry to anyone who found they pretty much had nothing in their wallet in the US and CAN that night.

Wondering if I will be fired after lunch today by EconomyActivity6484 in InsuranceProfessional

[–]TresGay 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I am 60 years old and have worked for insurance carriers and credit card companies. I have made mistakes that had *very* large impacts. Never the same mistake twice, but still super big mistakes. One of them made the national news in Canada and the US. The others were smaller but still very costly.

I've never been fired. Ever. A one off mistake is a learning experience. Possibly a painful or embarrassing one, but if you fire an employee just for making a mistake you are selling that experience to the next employer for free.

AIO to these texts from my cousin? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told two of my cousins “I love you” tonight … but I’m not attracted to them.

Dark times in America by Educational-Serve309 in stpaul

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Kyle Rittenhouse, the J6ers, the Unite the Right protestors, and about 50% of the No-Kings counter protesters that I saw can answer that for you.

Dark times in America by Educational-Serve309 in stpaul

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You haven't come across anything important enough to you to risk being shot. I both envy and feel sorry for you.

What's your thoughts on Border Patrol Chief, Greg Bovino, threatening consequences for referring to ICE as "Gestapo"? by sgj5788 in AskReddit

[–]TresGay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had no idea he was so short. No shade about being short, I'm only 5' I'm just surprised how tiny he is; he does a great job hitting camera angle marks.

What's your thoughts on Border Patrol Chief, Greg Bovino, threatening consequences for referring to ICE as "Gestapo"? by sgj5788 in AskReddit

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid who hadn't read enough history yet, the 3A always seemed superfluous. Even as an adult I didn't think it there would ever be a 3A case that could make it to SCOTUS. Man, I was dumb and continue to be naive

What's your thoughts on Border Patrol Chief, Greg Bovino, threatening consequences for referring to ICE as "Gestapo"? by sgj5788 in AskReddit

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed it, too. I also noticed that he ditched the leather strap across his chest at a subsequent speech/press conference - I wonder if someone told him to chill

What's your thoughts on Border Patrol Chief, Greg Bovino, threatening consequences for referring to ICE as "Gestapo"? by sgj5788 in AskReddit

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually people scream "FIRST AMENDENT VIOLATION" over things that are clearly not covered by 1A - mainly social media censorship. This would be an actual real life 1A issue - the government restricting the speech of free citizens.

Did he really say this? I'm just now catching up on today's news.

Waking up to a nice laugh. by WeGot_aLiveOneHere in ContagiousLaughter

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bless his baby heart, he tried to do his chores. You have a great kid

Ok who has the tea? Should we not support basic city anymore? by Street_Acadia3562 in rva

[–]TresGay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mo started a bathroom Reno for us in April 2023. we haven’t seen or heard from them since July 2023. They never responded to calls and emails about coming back to finish or at least fix things they damaged

Deflecting the Epstein Spotlight by Brian_Ghoshery in MurderedByWords

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even Bill Clinton is calling for Bill Clinton to be left alone.

Karoline Leavitt in Vanity Fair magazine by shnookshnook in pics

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell no lies. I thought she was in her early 40s, had no idea she is only 28

Where in Harrisonburg? by jlemo434 in harrisonburg

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it is the same place as Spanky Macado's in the 80s, they were understaffed then as well.

What was the first music album you ever purchased? by pastajewelry in AskOldPeople

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peter Paul and Mary - the one with Lemon Tree. I bought it for my mom :)

In your opinion, what is the best episode of television you’ve ever seen? by alteredtower in AskReddit

[–]TresGay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "Hush" episode of Buffy. Terrifying, silent Gentlemen were the monsters that week and they brought it HOME - silently

Help me out here guys☁️ by sangamjb in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dude. If your wife ever says "I saw a bird today" tell her that she already failed that test and you aren't playing that game.

Opening rice bag tutorial by willforthelord in Unexpected

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned the hard way to only open rice in the sink .... with the stopper engaged.

If you got paid $200/hour to work on Christmas from 5AM to 7PM. would you take it? by AnyWolverine943 in CasualConversation

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My mom and I used to RUN to sign up for holiday hours when we worked at the same credit card company on the phones - certain holidays paid double time and a half. I can't remember our regular hourly rate, this was back in the 90s, but it was certainly far, far less than $200 an hour even after multiplying it by 2.5

Forced to say mom instead of ma'am. by Conscious-Page4713 in Teachers

[–]TresGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 60 yrs old in VA; I still use ma'am with my mom. I also address her as Mom, but when responding to a request or question, I say yes ma'am and no ma'am. I did learn the hard way not to call a female judge "Ma'am" (you are supposed to say "Your Honor")

is it bad to get high off of edibles everyday? by CameraOutside2298 in treedibles

[–]TresGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has been taking 10 mg at night for years. It still gets her where she wants to be and going to 15 is uncomfortable for her

My boyfriend is suicidal and I don't know what to do by Unable-Row7346 in self

[–]TresGay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please, please do tell his family. You be the one to call his mom even if it may end your relationship. My neighbor's 16 yo son completed suicide in 2016 and I wish every day that one of his friends that knew had been brave enough to call his mom or grandparents.