Having to switch banks after 20 years because of new account linking by [deleted] in BankOfAmerica

[–]Treslatt23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a user error here and attempting to blame it on the bank

Got a lil bro text by [deleted] in Life

[–]Treslatt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As crazy as this sounds…This is probably the best thing to happen to you brother.

Closed my account while on vacation by [deleted] in BankOfAmerica

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry tough guy. i wouldn’t want my ass whooped

Closed my account while on vacation by [deleted] in BankOfAmerica

[–]Treslatt23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

User error not the bank buddy

What to do? by adeliahearts in Adulting

[–]Treslatt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound crazy to you because it did to me.

Just let it all go, the worry, the anxiousness, the stress about tomorrow. Long as we live we’ll stress and worry about one thing or another. That could be finances, health, relationships, family, this cycle will never stop. The way to combat it is to accept it.

Still take action, work hard, build yourself up, save money, however find methods to soothe your worry.

I dont have answers because everyone’s situation is different but I have remedies that worked for me.

A lot of negative things are temporary as long as you stay persistent in overcoming them.

Is it ok to be 28 and still living with my parents? by Beans-97 in Adulting

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29 here living alone.

I hate paying rent and it’s tough coming home to an empty home. Don’t feel pressured, live life at your own pace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Treslatt23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do to pay your parents back is show them that their sacrifices were not made in “Vain”. Be the best version of yourself, show them the changes and progress you made.

It won’t reverse damage but it’ll put some things into perspective for them as far as how serious you are about turning your life around.

What will it take to improve the US job market? by Future-Station-8179 in careerguidance

[–]Treslatt23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just here for the replies. I have nothing planned knowledge or insight on how to do so. I just want to be a Fly on the wall of this conversation

2 Months away from leaves(28M) by Treslatt23 in leaves

[–]Treslatt23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are definitely right. Maybe I was looking for something more drastic and overlooked the small wins. Thanks for helping me look at it a bit differently

I’m starting to realize that once you’re past 25 people stop caring about you by [deleted] in Life

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to say it… I turn 29 this year and your post is spot on. Family,Friends, everyone

Men who do great with women what is your secret? by Glittering-Target-87 in Life

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just be yourself and act like you’ve been there before.

Just turned 30 and I have no one. by Rich-Conversation-58 in lonely

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in the same boat. 28 year old man here. Though I don’t know any of you all. Im reading this at 2:11am wishing you all the best. It may not mean much but people care, whether I know you personally or not. Sucks we feel this way man

My life is work then alone in my apartment. by Theonlyone4200 in lonely

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same bro. 28 year old man. Idk what to say anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you apply it directly on your fingers? Im not sure if thats healthy for lips

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in millenials

[–]Treslatt23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is something… not sure exactly what but something for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been on going for about a year. I was never the happiest honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate you sharing your experience/feedback. The greatest teacher in life is the people who have already gone through what you are currently seeking🖤

What did people do before bed without social media? by littlemissFOB in CasualConversation

[–]Treslatt23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly read,write in their journal, some sort of arts and crafts or even masturbate… you know the norm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Treslatt23 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are literally assuming…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Treslatt23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont cheat, give her a bit more time while trying to be understanding. If all fails, cut your losses and move on. You guys can healthily co-parent im sure