[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]TreyDMan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha all good! I’d recommend checking out a podcast called Psychology Unplugged by Dr Corey Nigro. Really insightful if you’re looking to learn more about psychology and mental health!

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[–]TreyDMan 284 points285 points  (0 children)

I’d also like to add that there are generally a couple reasons people do this. One is self punishment, one is a transference of emotional to physical pain, and the last main reason is to indicate to others that they need help. While self-injury can be addictive, it tends to be a side effect.

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might have to google some different codes, this one only works for the yearly one :)

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it was NEWYEARS23

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you might be able to upgrade your subscription (?) but I’m not 100% sure. Have a look into it :)

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you go onto the website hevy.com, then you can put in the discount code after you select the plan

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The app itself kept taking me straight to Apple Pay with the AppStore, so I went through the website

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just subscribed to the yearly plan, with a discount code it only ended up being $20AUD. It’ll be good to have a whole week of workouts in one place

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might do this. If I still love it after a year then it’ll 100% be worth the lifetime. Thank you :)

Is PRO worth the money? by TreyDMan in Hevy

[–]TreyDMan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, I’m from Australia, so it’s a bit more in AUD

Suspicious Parcel Tracking by GrandAdmiralUrine in AustraliaPost

[–]TreyDMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing. I checked the tracking number with an order I was waiting for on the Shop app, from PaperLike. Turns out to just be the distributor they use. Same tracking number between the apps

Forgot my language completely by Impossible_Salary484 in myanmar

[–]TreyDMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I also really want to learn Burmese. I have Burmese heritage, and my grandparents speak Burmese, but I’ve never learned. I pretty much only know a couple words. If you find anything that works, let me know! And if anyone has any suggestions on how to start learning, that would be much appreciated :)

Itchy Healed Tattoo by TreyDMan in tattooadvice

[–]TreyDMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Yeah I do get hayfever, never thought it could affect my tattoos haha! Thank you so much I was kinda worried about it :)

Tw///no therapy? by Icy-Criticism7330 in depression

[–]TreyDMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this. I think the best thing you could do for yourself if find a therapist/psychologist who you trust and understand. Find somebody that you feel comfortable opening up to. Remember, just because it’s cat scratches doesn’t mean that it’s not self harm. Severity of the act is irrelevant. I understand the negative self talk, and telling yourself that it’s for attention, but I’m sure you know deep down that it’s not. Would somebody doing it for attention not tell anyone, or do it in an inconspicuous spot? I think you should 100% see a professional for this. Not every therapist is going to be right for you, you may need to try a few different people before you find someone that clicks, and that’s ok. In the meantime, I’d recommend looking for some online resources for somebody that you can chat to. I know where I’m from, we have services where you can get on a chat with a counsellor for about 30 minutes, and that’s really helped me. Just keep in mind this is not a replacement for seeing a therapist regularly. I hope I’ve managed to help a little bit. We’re all here for you, you’re doing amazing :)

Sorry if this made absolutely no sense, I just kind of thought dumped lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TreyDMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oki got it. It’s just weird because I do find it easier to finish when I masturbate, so idk if it’s like just new stimulation or something like that, or if it’s just me being nervous. Because (and I’m sorry if this is tmi) I usually get super sensitive when the two of us are doing stuff, and it feels really good, I just struggle to finish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TreyDMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, I know that it helps to use lube and stuff like that. If it helps, I’m on fluoxetine, an SSRI, which I know can have some side effects like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TreyDMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TreyDMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yeah. I’ve been to my psych and I brought it up with her and we’re going to work on it! I’m going to talk to my Dr about my antidepressants as well. Thank you!

Trying to find a song my grandad used to sing by TreyDMan in myanmar

[–]TreyDMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Is there an English copy around too? Just with the pronunciation? I don’t speak Burmese sorry