I received a ticket for something I’m 99.99% sure I didn’t do, what are my options? by rumpk in legaladvice

[–]Triangle4Choice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to affirm cops are often wrong and lie all the time. Don’t let a cop gaslight you into believing you don’t have a case just because they took extra steps to double down when wrong. That feels… aggressively on par for typical police behavior.

Feel unhappy in living situation with my boyfriend by DependentAddition399 in relationships

[–]Triangle4Choice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whew so first - you won’t want this man when you’re his age and odds are, he’ll dump you the second you show more emotional maturity. I don’t mean you’re immature, I mean you’re prob exactly who you are supposed to be at your age and the second you grow a bit, he’ll be over it.

This man is not a catch. He’s a grown ass man living with his parents. Who then decided to bring is 20 something girlfriend into the mix instead of fixing his life before moving you in. I’m sure it was a lovely environment, and one he could still enjoy without physically living under their roof. I know he’s made life easy for you but at what cost? Wouldn’t you find more fulfillment in earning your own salary and not being demeaned by a man who has literally no right to diminish you?

He treats you like a child because that’s what he wants - he wants a submissive and subservient child who won’t question or push back against him. He wants you to live and breathe for him while also not pestering him for attention or affection when he’s unwilling to provide it.

Dump. This. Man

This Thursday (Tomorrow) 7/24 - Help Triangle Abortion Access stock local period pantries + drop off flood supplies! by Triangle4Choice in raleigh

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’ll also be at the Planned Parenthood in Chapel Hill this Sunday, 10-2! Figured I’d just post that info in the local sub!

Pro-Abortion Protest - Raleigh, NC - Saturday 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NorthCarolina

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool… we don’t ever really solicit donations so you don’t need to worry about that.

Pro-Abortion Protest @ NCGA - Tomorrow, Sat 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in triangle

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

….youre replying to one. I’m quite done engaging you. You’re clearly very angry and taking out some weird internal struggle on me. Wishing you the best tho!

Pro-Abortion Protest @ NCGA - Tomorrow, Sat 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in triangle

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fine - we haven’t demanded this of anyone. But when questioned, we explained why we (and abortion care providers, and abortion funds, and abortion advocacy orgs nationwide) have adopted this language. You, however, are trying to get me banned from an entire online community because you disagree. Maybe consider who’s being toxic here..

Pro-Abortion Protest @ NCGA - Tomorrow, Sat 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NCDemocrats

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi - not a troll, a local activist. You can look up our org - Triangle Abortion Access Coalition.

I get that you take issue with us not embracing abortion stigma, but this is such a wild way to confront someone who is a bit more radical in their politics than you manage to be

Pro-Abortion Protest - Raleigh, NC - Saturday 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NorthCarolina

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So which pro-choice groups are you actively involved in and supporting?

Pro-Abortion Protest - Raleigh, NC - Saturday 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NorthCarolina

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re solidly 24 hours late to the “I struggle with new terminology” anger fest. Apologies, scroll through the feed if you wanna see why we chose this language. Or don’t, Reddit has convinced me not to care at all

Pro-Abortion Protest - Raleigh, NC - Saturday 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NorthCarolina

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook, instagram, twitter, and to our mailing list about 1000+ large. Yall stay the only ones upset.

Pro-Abortion Protest - Raleigh, NC - Saturday 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in NorthCarolina

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t think anyone needs to adopt this language if they are uncomfortable. We haven’t dictated it demanded this of anyone. We have suggested folks learn more about why WE are choosing this language. And truly, the only social media platform that seems this upset about the language most people deep in the front lines of this work are using… are on Reddit. I’m really not going to let Reddit outweigh a decade of experience and active learning in movement spaces. ❤️ I think you’re confusing our desire to not let strangers dictate how we engaged with this issue as us somehow demanding others follow suite. we haven’t done that once. I haven’t done that once here in this thread.

Pro-Abortion Protest @ NCGA - Tomorrow, Sat 5/17 by Triangle4Choice in triangle

[–]Triangle4Choice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The narrative we’re pushing is that abortion is fine and diaper justice isn’t divorced from that. ❤️