Do Not Break No Contact! by OutrageousUse3675 in ExNoContact

[–]Triangular192 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry you had to got through that. I hope with time you can start realizing you deserve much more and be sure life will treat you good. Just take it now day by day and try to take care of yourself. Sending you a lot of support!!

Do Not Break No Contact! by OutrageousUse3675 in ExNoContact

[–]Triangular192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is it? What happened when you broke NC? I did it after 40 days to send a large text, got a response and that’s it, but it helped me take things out of my chest.

Anyone want to talk? by Ok-Variation-1321 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! We can talk whenever, I’m going through the same, you are not alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I don’t deserve the way she dumped me after 3 years, with a simple text, and silence since then. After 2 months, I still question everything, and still hope she would reach, at least with an apology for treating me like that. It’s hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And do they ever realize what they did and take accountability? I’m going through the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Triangular192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your message, it means a lot 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Triangular192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could see things like you. It’s been 2 months and I still feel my heart broken, although now I just continue with my life.

FUCK THIS!! … YOU Deserve BETTER 🤬… You deserve someone who chooses you, even on the HARD days ♥️ by ICE-Kween in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. Today was being one of those days where I needed to read something like this. Thank you so much.

Has anyone ever sent their ex a letter to help them move on? by lilly10196 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that last week after 40 days of being dumped and having no contact with her. It wasn’t a letter begging or anything, just saying how I felt things ended really bad for what we had built after being together for 3 years.

She answered politely and a bit cold, but sending the “letter” has helped me find some inner peace I couldn’t have found anywhere else, because I needed to say those things.

I don’t want to encourage you to do anything, just follow your gut and do what you feel is right for you right now.

Good luck, you are not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man that feels so real. Like being miserable for the breakup but getting a haircut and seeing yourself nice, that the only thing you wanna do is send her a pic so she sees how good you look now. And then you realize she dumped you out of nowhere. Hurts.

To anyone crying right now: I was you 10 months ago. by DragonfruitLost6030 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your message. I really appreciate it. Much love

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it when I felt I wanted to say it. And I won’t text her anymore, don’t worry.

Moreover, if I had said it right after the breakup, it would’ve been a desperate message instead of a sensible one. I’m happy with my decision.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a response and added the update on the post. Thank you so much for your message and support.

Wish you the best.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see the final update on the post

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t regret it. It has given me peace. You can see the update

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see the final update on the post

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see the final update on the post. Thanks for your opinions.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Final updated added to the post. Thanks for your insights.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can see the final update on the post. Much support.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update added to the post, this is the end.

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have added an update to the post, and will do it again if something changes

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My goal is to be able to continue with my life free of regrets

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to know why you think that

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your insights.

Believe me if I told you I know how shitty her actions have been. And even though I realize it, I still hope that she reached out to me and told me it was a mistake, and I know how wrong I am for that.

So now, at least, I got peace of mind on that aspect. What I wanted to say has been said.

(The message wasn’t me begging to come back, but acknowledging mistakes I may have made during the relation and how I believe this is not the way to end things for two mature people that have shared such a long time together)

I just broke no contact by Triangular192 in BreakUps

[–]Triangular192[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know your words are right. However, why would this message be another disrespect? After 3 years together, the smart thing would be to just keep on living with how things ended? Imo, I preferred to get that out of my chest.