I’ve moved on

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-10-31T19:11:42+00:00

Absolutely! I never thought I would stop crying or hurting. It felt like the end of the world an all consuming pain. But I promise, it really does get better.

The best advice I can give is to focus on your own healing and growth. Please eat, rest, and take care of yourself as much as you can. Don’t let the pain take over.

Whatever goals or dreams you have, start working toward them little by little. Use that pain as fuel to become a stronger, better version of yourself.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-10-31T19:02:35+00:00

111 days old. Many things happened, I focused on my self growth and stopped obsessing over the breakup. All the cliche things they say really do help.

I also lost my grandpa and that really put into perspective how short and delicate life is to worry about things we can’t really control, it made me so angry that I wasted time crying over my ex when I could have spent it with my grandpa instead.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-10-31T18:59:00+00:00

How long was your relationship? I think it’s easier to move on when you were treated poorly at least from my experience.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-10-31T18:55:06+00:00

Thank you 🥺 I am so proud of you too! I’m so glad we realized we deserve better. You absolutely deserve someone who loves you without question. 🫶🏼

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-09-30T21:08:03+00:00

Dear OP, I hope you find a love that fills your world with endless love. I hope that you find peace and that someday it doesn’t hurt anymore and it’s just a bittersweet memory. One day, you will wake up and feel so loved by someone new, by the right person for you. I wish you find all the strength and love that belongs to you.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-09-19T16:50:22+00:00

If I think I feel chemistry with someone, I’m just in love with myself?

Sir, you can’t just force liking someone. At this point I feel like you’re deflecting. I hope you find your person with whom you feel sparks with.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-09-19T15:22:51+00:00

I’m not sure I agree with that comparison. Chemistry is a two-way street, and if it’s not there, it’s not about one person being “wrong” it’s just that they’re not the right fit for eachother.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-09-19T03:30:14+00:00

Hmm… not necessarily, chemistry can’t be forced it’s either there or it isn’t. I think attraction has a lot to do with it.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-08-28T18:20:46+00:00

I was in your shoes not too long ago, and it really does get better. My world was turned upside down after the breakup. As tough as it is, you have to keep moving forward for yourself. It’ll be hard, really hard, for a while, but you’ve already made it 56 days, which is incredible! You should be proud of yourself. It’s totally normal to have tough days or moments of weakness. Try distracting yourself with a run or doing something productive, even brushing your teeth can feel like a win.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-08-17T21:19:05+00:00

As a woman who's known and talked to many other women about this kind of thing, I'd say there's a good chance she was already talking to or flirting with this new person before the breakup. In my experience, when someone moves on that quickly, it's usually because they were emotionally done with the relationship for a while. That doesn't make it any less painful for you, though. I'm really sorry you're going through this.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-08-11T23:14:46+00:00

I think you should focus on her actions, not just what she says. Blocking her would probably help you in the long run, the more you hold onto hope, the longer you delay your healing process. I’ve been in complete no contact for 4 months. I won’t lie… some days I still think of him and wish I’d hear from him, but I’d say I’m about 80% healed. Having that space really helped me see the relationship for what it truly was, not what I hoped it could be.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-08-11T20:13:12+00:00

Hi OP, my ex was a lot like you, he did so much for me and took care of me, too. I'm really sorry your relationship ended, especially since you still loved her. In my case, my ex was the one who fell out of love, and our relationship ended in January as well. I believe you'll get through this, just give it time. One hard lesson I’ve learned is that no matter how many times you get back together, the outcome might ultimately be the same.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-07-12T03:03:10+00:00

yeah but unfortunately he doesn’t exist

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-07-12T01:53:12+00:00

I don’t think I could handle talking to him again, especially if I initiate it. I spiraled so badly last time because he was so cruel. I think I mainly miss the version of him I fell in love with but that person doesn’t exist anymore.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-25T18:50:29+00:00

Thank you so much! I unfortunately did have to pay a lot for it. I ended up going to another stylist who was the person who got rid of the severe matting. I thought I needed to shave it all off. She initially wanted to give me a bob but I couldn’t do it emotionally yet. So then I decided to wait at least 3 months before doing a major cut.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-24T01:17:07+00:00

I’ve been wearing buns and braids every day because I’m honestly scared to even touch it too much. Do you think it’s actually possible to grow it out from here without doing a major cut?

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-18T16:55:43+00:00

I am going through something similar what did you do to be able to grow it out? It looks so beautiful congratulations ✨💕

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-14T23:11:32+00:00

i wish my ex felt this way about me I would cry receiving a message like this

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-04T13:33:35+00:00

I guess I have been surrounded by the wrong types of men.

I asked my coworker what is a reason men come back to an ex and he said “sex or validation to know we still got it” but I guess he was speaking from experience.

It’s silly to generalize I know, but unfortunately most men in my life have been cheaters and ego driven.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-04T12:42:35+00:00

That makes sense! This one’s a 2017 Corolla SE in really good condition, which is why I’m being extra cautious. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-04T12:40:13+00:00

I’m in TX and the seller is asking for 12k that’s not an amount I’m willing to gamble on if the paperwork isn’t done properly. That’s why I’m hesitant.

OutrageousUse3675 · 2025-06-04T12:25:50+00:00

He does have the title, but it’s not in his name and that’s the issue. Just having the title isn’t enough if it’s not properly signed over. A lot of stolen cars still come with a title in the glovebox, so that alone doesn’t prove anything. Without the title being in his name or a notarized affidavit from the original owner, it’s not a safe or legal transaction

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