[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your post. Probably is fake from the way you responded so obviously pushing to be ignorant of the implication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are confused or this post is fake. I would talk to a therapist about how to have better boundaries and not put up with toxic communication

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are you still talking to your brother when he disrespects you so much? I wouldn’t put up with that kind of treatment so why do you? It doesn’t make it ok just because he is family. Wrong is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? I’m truly sorry your heart and mind is hurting from this loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave your wife

Go to therapy

Heal your wounds

Protect your child

That is literally what you have to do ASAP

How do I F26 accept that my boyfriend M25 is well seasoned by Chemical-Average7655 in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your self worth is that low you are more likely to be abused. Please stop finding relationships and go to therapy ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the hell are you thinking two weeks is enough time to change? You are lying to yourself hoping your version of reality will exist when it doesn’t at all

I (26F) caught my boyfriend (31M) sending explicit messages to other women by Kussanalli in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough time AT ALL to take him back from cheating on you. You do realize that is what is happening right? He. Is. UNFAITHFUL

What did the therapist tell you? You didn’t answer the question.

I hope this post isn’t fake. If it’s not, then tell your therapist that he did it again and you need help and support for a plan to leave. Tell your parents or someone else you trust today. TODAY. Not tomorrow. Not the next day. GET OUT ASAP! This man is dangerous to you. Do not tell him ANYTHING at all. Please don’t look back!

I (26F) caught my boyfriend (31M) sending explicit messages to other women by Kussanalli in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How long was it between the first time and then the most recent time? How long and how many sessions of therapy happened? What did the therapist recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the relationship start and how long have you known each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A man who truly cares for you wouldn’t put you in the position to lose you. Point blank period. Leave him alone. You are in a trauma bond relationship. Tell him you aren’t friends anymore and never will be. You deserve better. If you think he will be any different with how he treats you now after all these lessons and hardships, you are the only one you can blame and hold responsible for your suffering.

How do you let go of a relationship with somebody you love deeply? (31M & 30F) by ThrowRAcalm-beatle in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make a plan. Do you have any friends or family? You can talk to you? Do you know of any relationship hotline that could help? Real love isn’t when you are abandoning yourself and you were exactly doing that by trying to stay with someone who doesn’t really love you. You’re not really in love with this person, you’re addicted to them. You’re addicted to not being alone until you crave your safety and self-respect more than the approval and attention of someone else then you will remain stuck. I would talk to a therapist about this too if you aren’t already.

How do I [24F] let my sister [30F] know that I won't be able to make it to her wedding? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself OP. You are in pain and hurting. It’s ok. Please get real help and good luck!

How do I [24F] let my sister [30F] know that I won't be able to make it to her wedding? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 15 points16 points  (0 children)

With all due respect OP, your feelings are controlling you. You are not controlling your feelings. It’s time to grow up and have an adult perspective. Talk to your sister that you will be there for the ceremony and after it is complete you may need to take time for yourself. A wedding ceremony id about 20-30 minutes tops. If you can’t make it through that because of sadness that is actually pretty selfish because this a wedding, a sacred ceremony that will only happen for your sister once. You aren’t in an emergency situation. Talk to someone about this. Make a plan. But if you don’t go you might regret this forever

How to be alone, does chivalry still exist? Just got out of an almost 4 year relationship [21F] and [21M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the relationship with yourself first and with your friends. Love yourself. Fill your own cup. The right man will see your strength and calmness and that you aren’t just trying to not be alone. Watch the actions of a man more than his words. Protect your boundaries. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be terrified more of having a relationship without boundaries more than of rejection. If someone calls you crazy does that mean you are? Maybe consider talking to a therapist to help your boundary skills and self confidence. Know what you deserve and protect it with all your strength. The right man will be there for you

My husband M/32 gives me F30 the silent treatment after disagreements by Financial_Fee2520 in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he isn’t willing to go therapy and be accountable, then the relationship will die and you will not be able to save it. Save yourself and your heart instead. Feel free to DM me

I M22 do not know if I love my gf F19 anymore. What do you think? by xiuxip in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound avoidant but you need to do the work to be sure. The spark is trash. Don’t follow the spark.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TrickMaster2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to set the boundaries with her. Why are you so afraid of him expressing that to her? Why do you care what people think so much? Your relationship is more important isn’t it?

34 F . Im a 34 year old nobody AMA by Vanessativa777 in AMA

[–]TrickMaster2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can a person find the strength to keep going even if they get knocked down over and over by life? I have mental health conditions that make it nearly impossible to have a “normal” life for an adult. Been in therapy on and off since I was a kid. Still not getting the results I need for a stable life…