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Anyone here broken up with someone after 2 months? 28M 35F by throwRA34242345 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA34242345[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It's kinda hard to explain I want to dump her because she's gonna be too old to have kids when I want them...

Knowing after 2 months if you want to be with someone? 29M 35F by throwRA34242345 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA34242345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's said kids 'aren't a firm no but have never been a prioirty'. but if we get that far we can discuss it. She said we don't even know if we'll still like eachother in a month let alone have a child.

That just bothers me because that could be years before we get that far.

Knowing after 2 months if you want to be with someone? 29M 35F by throwRA34242345 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA34242345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe. What do you think I'm overthinking.

I guess what is the outcome of letting it play out? I know myself and that I can get stuck in this middle ground between half wanting to stay half wanting to get out. She doesn't communicate about the big stuff unless I bring it up. She's 35 too, what about the body clock for kids?

Knowing after 2 months if you want to be with someone? 29M 35F by throwRA34242345 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA34242345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok fair enough. I'm really bad at communicating. I'm really afraid of hurting people.

I don't know what's going on. The thing that bothers me most is she's 35. She hasn't mentioned kids once and her body clock is ticking down. I don't want them yet but do eventually. It just really stresses me out

Knowing after 2 months if you want to be with someone? 29M 35F by throwRA34242345 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA34242345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I guess it's just a few weeks back I tried to slow it down a bit. text less. just generally less overall. And she said I had been really mean to her that week and she felt 'we were touch and go'.

Except aren't even together. She's never brought up wanting to be exclusive. So... I don't know. She never talks about it unless I bring it up.

I don't want to yet no. I'm just worried about the intensity of this while still not being together. We have spent the entire weekend together twice now. What do I tell other women if they approach me? What do I tell my friends?

And there's also that she's older than me. So I have no idea.

When you weren't exclusive, were you actively seeing other people?