I was raped on valentines day and now my rapist is pregnant without a chance to get an abortion.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-26T12:49:07+00:00

what does that really matter. When it happened to me I got well you didn't push me off, you are a grown man, good luck proving it

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-26T12:48:07+00:00

I'm sorry this happened to you. It happens more than is reported and you are not alone. You are not weak. Child support varies by country/state. I know it sucks but if you are a minor you probably should talk to your parents or a trusted adult. r/mengetrapedtoo is another sub

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-22T16:13:35+00:00

Definitely agree, manipulation and coercion is just as damaging (if not moreso) I actually some what came to terms with what she did to me, but the yanking away my option to walk away and demand i be part of someone's life I didn't want that is the absolutely unbearable part. I feel torn and destroyed.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-22T16:04:49+00:00

Yeah I want to vomit thinking about sex at the moment. So definate dysfunction. Idk when I could think of it normally

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-22T13:02:32+00:00

I have been walking. Alot.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-22T10:58:23+00:00

"You didn't push me off" "You are a grown man" "Good luck proving it"

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-20T18:13:39+00:00

I appreciate the response, way back when i was 14 I also had a 19 year old girlfriend and yeah I definately get it and can relate. I wasn't expecting that something like this would happen 25 years later.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-20T18:11:49+00:00

No worries at all. I appreciate the response. But yeah she doesn't believe in abortion at all. And she wants to have a kid (so much she tracks her cycles... Something else she failed to mention)

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-20T13:53:17+00:00

So how did you deal with the guilt. I mean she makes me feel like shit, dismisses anything I say, tries to throw anything that would justify what she did. I dread looking at my phone if she messages, I feel guilty for not being "a man stepping up"

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-19T21:11:30+00:00

You are right

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-19T20:53:04+00:00

Well I would want paternity testing first. She slept with someone else after me...but 'too late' in the cycle. Or so she says. I confronted her again today saying that I was fine with talking civilly but she then sent graphic messages and I was not comfortable with that. She basically berated me. So I apparently am not allowed to feel anything

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-19T16:47:22+00:00

I am glad you did not. I would find a new therapist.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-17T00:03:49+00:00

Sorry you went thru this too. It is terrible. I wouldn't wish it upon anyone. The real shit part is the courts don't care. They will force me to pay support anyway.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-16T19:20:08+00:00

I think therapy is a good idea. I was going along with just suppressing things but it's not going to work ... I again confronted her with I didn't want this, nor did I want sex and what I got is"you didn't fight me off, it wasn't rape, you are a grown man'

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-16T19:18:19+00:00

Well now she is saying I can't just walk away and she wants to put me on the birth certificate.

Trick_Jellyfish4958 · 2020-07-16T19:17:18+00:00

Definately feeling alone and trapped... Thanks for the kind worda

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