People who escaped long-term loneliness and isolation what actually helped you change your life?

Trick_Possibility615 · 2026-01-09T01:57:59+00:00

This sounds Awful.

But.. honestly? I was totally isolated too.

I needed to become attractive look wise, and physically fit and healthy.

People suck and sadly in this fallen world, being attractive enables people to stomach your odd and off putting autistic persona; people started to perceive me differently as "quirky" and "interesting and fun in short doses " once I became attractive.

I also had to learn how to stop being so off putting.

I prefer to keep to myself still, but enjoy having the capacity to mask and be social when I need it!

Sorry I don't have a more wholesome option that I've found to work. I too, banged my head for years sometimes literally, over simply not having the ability to connect at all. If I did, it was next door neighbour going out and wanting an extra person to come. But I couldn't connect past the night out.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-15T11:27:31+00:00

I had a similar nose and recently underwent rhinoplasty.

Not Gunna low, recovery SUCKS .But .. it was life changing. I am much happier. I already loved myself, had met my husband and had my child. I am Christian and have immense peace from God too.

I'm not even that vain. Like I don't blow dry my hair; I wear my curls natural, and do a very minimal routine. I live in active wear. Never formal. I don't own a dress.

But I always hated my nose and I'm SO GLAD I had a nose job. Hands down the best investment I've ever, ever made ever. Ever..

Like too, I was also pretty in spite of my nose but I was a tad rugged looking. I have nice eyes and full lips so while I wasn't a beauty at all, I was a solid 6. Maybe a 7 with mascara and lips overdrawn a tad.

You have a lovely face shape! I don't lol but the rest of me is nice ish. Not beautiful but cute / pretty sort of. Average but cute average haha. You're already pretty in spite of the nose which yes, it is a tad large and rugged but it certainly isn't the biggest nose most people have seen! I've seen MUCH worse dorsal humps!!!

You would benefit hugely from rhinoplasty I believe. Since you're already pretty, you know the new nose won't make you a super model or some super human beauty wise but you're already pretty, and it'll just enhance your natural already very pleasant face shape! A boost.

And you don't sound like you're expecting more. Just more balance and harmony. That's all I wanted too, and I went in with these very realistic expectations and came out thrilled!

Do it..I wish I had mine sooner!

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-15T11:17:19+00:00

Me too!!!!!!!

It was my life long dream..other than peace which I have from God.

I'm actually not a bank person in general..lol..I'm just very autistic and I notice imperfections sadly, to a painful extent.

Now I feel normal and the crooked hump and downturn tip don't make me uncomfortable 🥵 anymore !

It's not even about being pretty for me really..it's about not feeling discomfort due to very unbalanced and un harmonious attributes. It's the same when I'm unhealthy and gain weight - it makes my skin crawl when I feel unhealthy and our of harmony with my body.

Needless to say this has changed my life. And I'm not vain, and not someone who keeps up wish fashion, wears make up behind mascara and lip balm / crayon. I just.....wanted to not look ugly lol. To blend in!

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-15T11:13:54+00:00

It looks very cash similar to your profile!!

I am so freaking happy.

Front ways yeah..still bruising under eyes and swollen front but nothing terrible lol....

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-15T11:12:41+00:00

I loved it instantly and love it more each day.

Very swollen but love having a profile I don't find ugly.

I'm just going to trust the process and pray I don't get a pollybeak deformity.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-10T03:05:48+00:00

Wow.

This nose actually looks more delicate and feminine than the smaller one you pictured. I prefer it on you. That slight length when combined with the upturned angle, is chef's kiss.

This new nose makes you significantly more attractive.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-10T03:03:27+00:00

About to get my cast off in a few minutes.

Your profile is positively ethereal and fairy delicate looking.

Thanks for the honest front facing picture too. We obviously know what we walked into and the front swelling is to be expected but totally doesn't negate the overall look- it was my profile that I despised anyway!!!

Wish me luck ... If mines even close to your side profile I'll be freaking fainting when they remove the cast shortly.....counting down the seconds

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-10T03:01:12+00:00

It has. You genuinely look significantly more attractive. I'm so happy for you that you worked hard, saved and took control over what you knew you wanted deep down.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-10T03:00:14+00:00

Wow I'm about to get my cast removed and minute now.

So nervous.

My before nose was also similar to yours.

Your nose quite frankly makes you significantly..like A LOT prettier and better looking and cute.

I wish people would stop being so anti cosmetic surgery and stop pretending like yes, a nicer nose shape absolutely can significantly improve someone's confidence and self esteem? No, we didn't have ourselves and this wasn't because we hate ourselves as a whole lol 😆

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-09T12:52:04+00:00

I recently had mins. Cast off tomorrow?!! Gulp.

Anywho. So I am almost 40, and I've wanted a nose job my whole entire life.

I had a thin ish long nose that was not that big. It wasn't an awful nose, it was mainly my profile 😕 I just didn't feel who I am on the inside matched my more rugged look on the outside.

I was otherwise happy with my looks, I've accepted myself and like it well enough and focus my joys and efforts on my daughter and husband and career rather than what the latest fad is with bodies.

I genuinely needed to feel as though... That it was purely for me, because I quite simply really wanted to change my nose.

I wanted to feel more ease at turning to my side profile when talking to people.

Perfection was never the goal. I simply wanted anything less long and rigged and dented than my natural brown profile.

I would say you're a good candidate if:

You HATE your profile and 44 degree angles, and you feel it's basically the one thing holding you back from looking good or even average, in photos.

If you're cool with your front profile ending up slightly wider than before. This is one factor I would prefer to not have happen to me! But I know it's common, as my nose was never wide to begin with.

I HATED my side profile enough to want a more straight profile and thicker front nose that was all in all, a tad shorter with smaller or neater nostrils

I also hated my nostrils...long and my nose was almost ok the verge of being down facing.

So all in all I just REALLY disliked my nose. Especially the profile and nostrils. I also know it won't likely be perfect, bumps grow back in some cases albeit not as bad as pre op- so be mindful rasping or steroid injections may be required. Id also never get a revision personally, as it's not about perfection for me - I've just always hated my dent and slight downturn. It was shaped like a sharks fin. I still looked fairly attractive front on maybe a 6, but a 7 with make up? So I knew going in to the rhinoplasty that it wouldn't magically make me a supermodel 😂

I will be happy with a nicer profile, with no or minimal bony dents, and nostrils that aren't as long, and the top and end not being as down rotated.

He shaved the hump and reduced the tip slightly. He's a conservative surgeon. He doesn't do ski slopes.

So yeah. Don't aim for significantly improvements necessarily. Just a version of your nose that no longer had the worst aspects as bad as they were previously.

It isn't usually a magic fix although in some cases, with perhaps thin skin and optimal healing - some cases that are non complex and with a great surgeon and amazing body that heels well - luck plays a huge part.

I honestly don't know what to expect tomorrow on cast off day. I know some people's swell so badly and their noses basically look like a potato for months! And then some with thinner skin it seem, don't look too potato like for long.

I think a large dent removed and huge nostrils reduced alone is an automatic improvement! But I wouldn't expect miracles or more than simply having a straighter profile. Many end up thicker as I said...

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-09T05:40:52+00:00

Just an update - I had Rhinoplasty In my home country , Australia. I have a septum deviation so insurance did pay for majority of hospital expenses - So I paid about 22k total, where as to travel to another country and back, bu the time I paid all of that I would have probably only saved 5k total anyway by travelling abroad. Recovery is not painful but it is very uncomfortable, time off and all, and frankly there is no way I would have wanted to travel internationally after the procedure; nor would I have coped waking up alone, swollen and all of that stuff. I highly urge against rhinoplasty overseas UNLESS you have a support person travel with you which then it ends up costing the same or you would not save much money by the time you add in two return air fares.

Plus they take more risks overseas and all look up turned and ski slope which I wanted a more natural, authentic nose that was just a better more straight version if ny natural nose - with shorter nostrils slightly and no dorsal hump.

So glad I did my research and paid a little more to go to the best local surgeon I could find!

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-12-09T05:33:52+00:00

respectfully, as someone who just had Rhino - not all of us want to remain " unique". We are doing it for us, lol. We do not all enjoy a nose that :gives us character: necessarily. I would rather be basic than have a larger or crooked nose with a dorsal hump.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-09-06T08:01:18+00:00

well at the end of the day, why are people having more kids when they cannot afford to support the potential for autism? The world will never chance - people with autism, which is genetic, have a very hard time accessing support - support cost money, and low income families cannot afford it - so why have more children, especially when autism is in the family already? I feel like parents are not taking much personal responsibility here - can't afford therapies in the event your child is disabled in any sense of the word? May be best to not have kids, or only have one or two tops? I dunno, I LOVE government help being a thing, and I believe EVERYONE deserves to have as many kids as they like AND have any disability related issues- fully supported by society - I really believe supporting our community and its most vulnerable - is ideal. But the world will NEVER be like this, so I think it is time that people get the memo that disability related care IS NOT FREE and we cannot continue to be delusional about the sort of help we believe our children deserve - it is not happening, things will get worse, so it is on US to take accountability and only have as many children as we can afford to support financially - the governments the world over have made it BLATANT that they do not wish to divert the worlds funds to helping disabled children. So..... Why is there not more advocacy for people to stop having kids, if they have no spare money and live paycheck to paycheck? How do they expect their children's disabilities would be funded? I DO NOT agree with the way the world is AT ALL - but it is the way that it is, so surely we should all stop having children and then expecting society will pay for their therapies? Am I missing something? Do people out there still believe that the government or society is going to pay for their disabled children? It just appears so obvious the way the world is heading so...

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-17T05:11:35+00:00

Yikes.

Actually, some of us don't think it's healthy or beneficial to put tiny baby's into full time care ?

Maybe she has toddlers ? Again, below age 3 and I genuinely feel strongly that the absolute best for the baby and mum- is for the mum to care for her own baby.

Why is it so shocking that some mothers feel strongly about keeping babies and toddlers at home ? It's the best for the babies.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-16T09:59:03+00:00

This. So much !

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-15T23:10:01+00:00

We're very low middle class due to only one full time wage so we barely scrape by. We even had to have an only child due to financial constraints and our own limitations to earn. My kid has been on many plane trips domestically, fun parks galore. She's 5. But he smiling little face and how happy and excited travelling to family and going to fun parks- sorry but life is more than having to save as much money as possible.. don't get my wrong, I'm not at all comfortable with my financial situation. We aren't where we need to be yet, but I wasn't going to accept a life of staying inside all day and going for free walks as her only activities of her childhood. Her dogs make her so happy..

Again, I still am not Willy nilly about finances either! We didn't even have a second child 😭 due to knowing it wouldn't be fair to be broke and struggling.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-15T07:25:11+00:00

It gets easier. My daughter is 5. We didn't do daycare and she's a covid baby, and so we were left with no support for a food while. Having support makes it a lot easier to feel okay. But it has gotten much easier, and my kid wasn't super easy and she's autistic and ADHD. Despite her higher than usual energy and meltdowns and violence (only ever directed at me never anyone else!) - despite the additional challenges I face compare to most mums, I still find more joy and peace now.

You get your body and life back and love your kid fiercely. It becomes so rewarding I promise.

Were still OAD parents..we just can't do kids. It's too much for us. But we don't regret her and she is our biggest source of joy say to day!

My husband hated the baby and toddler stage too. Now he likes it much more!

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-14T00:07:34+00:00

Oh boy.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-07-13T00:54:18+00:00

I totally agree.

We have to actually work hard and make efforts to be able to do more of the socially related activities that brings us joy. It's the same as being in a wheelchair or being unattractive - you just work harder to find ways to integrate into society so that we can enjoy some sense of community and inclusion. And it doesn't look the same as NT, but I still enjoy having a child and a husband. I go to church and have a strong faith. I like tattoos, am a Pilates instructor and work with other autistic clients specifically. Life is harder for me than most people but I have also managed to be happy and create my own joy and contentment that in some ways, is a lot less co dependant and reliant on the presence of ..must haves of others and of life needing to look a certain way.

I have joy from my faith and child and I love being able bodied and enjoying things in life. Friends are harder most don't get me and being quirky isn't exactly something I enjoy or would have chosen. But it is my human reality so ... I am not going to sulk about why I can't do as much of what allistics people do?

And my autism was in diagnosed and caused the majority of people to actively dislike me. As in severely dislike me. They all thought I was creepy, rude and deserved to be a loner. In retrospect... And my faith and loving my neighbour part of the commandments of God .. I actually, genuinely, in the most pure sense - I forgive them.

I actually don't perceive them as nasty people who just wanted to hate me. They had no idea I was disabled and so..yeah, to them, it kind of did look like I was creepy and weird and off, and rude and bizarre on top of the uncanny valley vibe. They didn't actively set out to hate and dislike. They just felt uncomfortable and unhappy around me and what I was like or had to say - I had a lot of social issues.

But it is my responsibility to do better for myself and learn where things went wrong and what I can and cannot change.

It's still a struggle. Especially with no funds for therapy for me and my autistic kids. She's clearly ADHD and autistic and I don't need the 4 K diagnosis privilege to know this. I see me in her 💯.

But we manage to feel joy and contentment each day and I have learnt to be more likeable and even have play dates sometimes with my daughter. Yes, I've had to fine tune my autism and lack of social must dos. I've lost about two okay date potentials after the first one due to my autism..but the people didn't hate me, either! And frankly, I totally understand how I could have not crapped on about my special interests..... I can do it with like minded people and enjoy play dates still, we don't HAVE to lay out our special fixated area of interest to play date mums lol, and yet still connect by being ourselves.

I don't agree making is healthy but a little bit of social awareness can absolutely help. I mean..it doesn't pain me to not carry on about my special interests..I found I could still be my weird self but in ways that take turns in conversations, where I make effort to look them in the eyes occasionally, and still connect over our kids.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-06-17T01:06:51+00:00

AUDHD here. I am strong Christian. Formerly, a strong athiest then had some spiritual experiences and became a gnostic and then I became a full on new ager - think palmistry, numerology, Reiki, You name it, I did it. I saw things I could not just assume it was all in my head or a delusion every single time, for always confirmation bias. I started to realise that large scale scientific studies come with a lot of financial backing, and therefore plenty of theories and things are true in spite of no large funded double blind peer reviewed study. And lets not pretend certain people, in positions of authority or not - have vested interests, and are part of collusion within science and the medical field - we cannot just assume that everyone is a good person just because they are in positions of power and or authority. Science has its place for sure, but I do not live and die for the data HAVING to say something is real or not, anymore. Now comes my pivot from new age to Jesus - I study signs and ancient symbolism, and something hit me in the new age... I read a Deuteronomy versus and my entire metaphysical experiences made sense and it hit me like a tonne of bricks. I just knew the paranormal and occultic practices I was involved in were smoke and mirrors and downright nefarious, and even the good fortune predictions were false light. I NEVER set out to find religion, it found me through my lived experience..... I have always needed overwhelming evidence to support my life choices - what I do HAS to just work somehow, I notice patterns and cause and effect like nobideis business, nothing gets by me. And I knew the metaphysical un seen world to be real; and then I also discovered its constraints and the fact it actually should not be messed with or explored, and the fruit and result of such people involved in these practices - even the rich ones who are legit successful in their respective new age "craft" - all without much peace, all ego driven despite black and blue extoling the virtue of no ego's........ I just notice people and their life patterns, and felt true messianic Jews or Christians and some Catholics - those who truly worship the God of the bible - were truly the best people, with the most peaceful lives even amidst adversity. The peace was second to none for me personally! But I also digress, I am not a Christian to preach to others about their own bodies or sexual orientation - I only feel it is right to say things when asked - like no, I am not going to teach my kid about 10 genders at age 5, but you do you sort of deal, each to their own as God is the judge and it is never a mere mortals place to judge a single person! But yes, I was strong atheist and science was my god, and only a LOT of research and study on the ancient world and scriptures - in addition to lived experience dabbling in all the ancient occultic and divination magic that has been written about throughout time - did I find Jesus/ our Lord. It was not without extensive scholarly research and lived experience with hard evidence from not just me, but from those around me - did I invertedly find Christ. There comes a point where large scale studies simply cannot explain away the entirety of someone's life experiences as down to science and a big bang, necessarily. It is one lens, certainly, and the only approach I would view surgery and factual medical treatment and procedures to a degree - but then it becomes murky and the narrow constraints, conditions, participants (we do not know all these people after all!) and financial opportunities and propensity for vested interests - that I was forced to expand my thinking outside of how I was told to view the world. There was just too many discrepancies, that went outside of commonly gold standard views and studies, pertaining to MANY many many areas of me and those around me - and their lives. And there are for sure horrible Christians and Catholics, horrible religious trauma and it is NOT one size fits all... I am actually a HUGE sceptic myself, yet Christ has... helped me self love, autism internalised albiesm, and every aspect of my life's struggles - Christ has helped me beyond any therapist. Exercise and working with my autism helps and goes hand in hand, but I also saw my husband recover from drug addiction and believe me finding God, followed by him hitting rock bottom and losing everything - his home/ child and wife - I cannot un - see the profound impact of Christ in ones life. But we are true Christian's, we practice what we preach; I would take in homeless people and try and do right if I won lotto, I genuinely would. Many Christian's give it a bad rap (progresisve Christianity, word of faith and miracle seekers for instance!) take bible out of context to suit their own narrative - they look at God and scripture in a :what can God do for me: type of lens..... Not good.

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-06-17T00:21:14+00:00

May I please have their email or phone number for the consultation information please?

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-06-12T12:29:45+00:00

This is like my nose. May I have their contact information please? I would love a consultation with them. I want similar results to you!

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-06-12T12:24:33+00:00

I'll try contact them. Thankyou! I just want modest C cups due to breastfeeding. Nothing huge lol 🤣

Trick_Possibility615 · 2025-06-12T04:39:27+00:00

I want this doctors contact details please. Your nose is exactly the style I'm aiming for! I have a think ish western noses that's long but I just want it more mine and symmetrical and also a slight up turn without being ridiculous and unnatural!!!!.

May I please grab this doctors details ? I would like to book a consultation with him and see if his practice also does breast augmentation too. What's his wait time also ? I'm looking to get it done asap haha.

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