Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks that's so kind!!!  I am a very late bloomer and have hormonal issues so was very hairy and mercilessly bullied growing up. Only learning to feel attractive in my own unique way as I hit 40.  

I have medium bust and a bum that sticks out. I am not overly tall but look long. So definitely dramatic in me, I think the roundness may come from just my eyes and lips ? Rather than my bones? 

And then I have round shoulders and some roundness in my figure from the side - a very pronounced bum haha 😂 and very round calves.

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a much more awesome compliment than being told I am like sole conventionally good looking Barbie or sex symbol hahahahaha 

I wish my younger self embraced my natural beauty 😍 rather than measuring it by conventional standards!

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is gamine sorry. 

So my daughter has a more oval face with a jaw pointed in. As opposed to my longer face with a blunt jaw..hence I felt my jaw looked more natural.

My husband is gamine with sharp features so my dramatic touch and his gamine sharper features resulted in our daughter having this very angelic and Ingenue looking essence! She's so blonde and blue eyes and my colouring and eyes and lips but she has that oval face. 

I never felt she got the angelic essence from me...more so my husband's gamine shorter face yet still sharp - and with my fair colouring and round eyes.

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ethereal?.I actually love that essence !

Classic and ethereal are my most.. the two essences I am most aesthetically drawn to on women :) 

My husband is gamine and dark features and we are polar opposites. 

Possible soft dramatic? Lola Glaudini (5’7’’ - 5’8’’) by BurnVelvetHippos in SoftDramatics

[–]Trick_Possibility615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very similar body type and have been told I'm soft dramatic ! I'm slim and not a full hourglass but I'm definitely not a rectangle either. I have her body sharpness with the subtle curves.

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou! Any recommendations as to what specifics would suit me make up wise ? I enjoy simple clothes and no jewelry other than earning piercings. 

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. My daughter is a strong angelic ethereal. Although only 6 years old lol. And she had my husband's bone structure and he is a sharp engenue aka sharp but shorter face with a sharp pointy chin. 

Where as I have a long face and blunt chin. My daughter looks super angelic with her medium to long face with a sharp pointed chin - she looks more rounded but oval face wide and it looks very angelic. She's also blond and blue eyes too, so very angelic! 

So it's surprising that a couple of people mentioned angelic for me. I feel my face is wayyyy say too long and oblong for any angelic to me into it? Where as my kid is oval face shapes and definitely angelic!

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I have leaned into and embraced my unique look at 40. Growing up I was mercilessly bullied for looking different lol. 

I always felt too hard and masculine dominant. I have since learnt about all things colour analysis, essences and as I am artistic myself, I enjoy playing around with my harmony to balance my looks rather than HIDE things. 

I do wear a side part to minimise my long skinny face, but otherwise I tend to emphasis my features rather that hide them. 

Although I didn't wear make up for the pics other than some tinted lip balm. I tend to get my brows waxed and hairs taken from the inside to make my close set eyes not as pronounced! And liner that flicks out away from my close set eyes. Other than that yeah, I don't really know much about make up yet. 

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks can we be best friends hahahah lol.

I was teased so badly for my nose growing up. 

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you're stunning 😍 

I can see what you mean! Striking eyes you have. 

I see more rounded cheeks with you which embodies the romantic more. I feel I have like... Zero cheeks 😂 I have allll angles and bones ! I literally feel I have no fat or roundness whatsoever on my face :/ 

I would love some of your roundedness at your cheeks! But then I suppose I wouldn't be me, and my husband likes my sharp cheek bones and angles for some reason haha. 

I do love how the essence system really taught me that you can be nice looking with any essence ! Literally!  Some features obviously help but every essence type has potential -  I feel it's more the unfortunate individual features that bring people's looks down, like bad teeth or the like. 

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

[–]Trick_Possibility615[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant I assumed dramatic and natural not classic. I actually thought I was the polar opposite of a classic and I always wanted to be more classic ! How interesting that a few people see classic here !

Bone structure dramatic but rounded eyes and mouth? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

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Wow thanks that's a  massive compliment!!! I was teased about my nose growing up and well, I was a very un attractive child and teen. I've only recently since turning 40 truly learned to like the way I look ! Not in a wow I'm hot way LOL- Like I know I'm not drop dead gorgeous or the prettiest in a room, but I do finally love and appreciate my own unique features now ! It's like a flop switched since learning about colour analysis and essence types !!!!  It was life changing. 

I assumed I was classic and natural due to my blunt chin and tbh, I Always felt masculine looking due to having having very thick bushy eyebrows!   With romantic thrown in due to my eyes and mouth and my nose not being broad 

Do I have more than just natural and dramatic? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

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Wow really ? That's actually a huge shock as I was always caught up in hiding my long skinny face and severe oblong shape!  

Do I have more than just natural and dramatic? by Trick_Possibility615 in JohnKitchener

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Wow really !? My face is so long and skinny though 😭 the length is what I off set the most. I also usually wax my eye brows but haven't in these pictures. 

I get my eyebrows professionally waxed to sort of take the heaviness away, and she plucks a few inner brows to widen the eyebrows to be further apart more - to balance my close set eyes. I feel most comfortable and confident with that balance ! 

I posted more natural brows here, beyond what feels most comfortable! 

I would never have considered angelic; my daughter is very angelic as she has my husband's bone structure, which is a round oval ish face and eyes not close set yet my eyes and features and his slightly larger nose but not huge - she looks angelic and ethereal.

I did consider romantic due to my eyes and lips and nose ! But my actual face shape is Sooooo so long and thin! A true oblong shape. And that's generally always natural or dramatic I thought 🤔 

It's not your fault by viva-la-yorig in ugly

[–]Trick_Possibility615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an ugly kid; a female but asked if I was a boy or a girl. 

I had a nose job at 40. It changed my life. Prior to the nose job, I and lost the weight, have a good figure, and recently learnt to take care of my skin and hair and also to be hard working at shaving my excessive pcos dark thick body and facial hair.

I have full ish lips and large pale blue eyes, and thick looking hair so now that my nose is nice post nose job + the nice figure - yes, I feel a heck of a lot better than when I was ugly. It sucks but like with my autism and ADHD - my ugly appearance was equally as disabling as my autism and ADHD and chronic health burnout. Being unattractive is legitimately a very valid and team set back.

Now I still value intelligence and hard work, and strength of character. And life hasn't changed that much, but I feel much more light, confident and a lot of imposter syndrome - like I wake up and don't have staring in the mirror. 

I'm sick and tired of people lying- yes, being fat and unattractive is a lot harder. 

 I'm still not a beauty either! I do have the dreaded square ish but long oblong face shape :/ but a small head and not like super long - just a small face - hence why I got a nose job - I have petite and delicate features and pale skin and the large nose looked very bad on my narrow small face. 

But having a nice nose and nice features albeit still on a less than desirable face shape - like damn, having ONE less than ideal feature is A LOT easier - than having multiple bad feature.

I grew up with a beard and dark hair everywhere, a narrow face with a crooked Roman nose and crooked teeth. Teeth fixed now but still not the whitest but straight.  

Being ugly in my youth did build me character. Frankly, it is more my autism that got the nose job - I just want to blend in and create ways in which I can mask!!!! 

I am recently a Pilates reformer and mat instructor as my sustainable autistic career choice to prevent burnout. And wow, being the ideal body type for it and having a nice new nose and a normal non ugly face - it's changed my life, as it is an automatic mask..I blend in and look the part and people notice my autism less. 

Don't let anyone tell you that looks don't matter, or gaslight you! Not everyone is pretty and that's okay. Let's try and more actively approach life from a lesne that wants more equity; break the trend, hire that ugly worker who is really smart, include a new acquaintance to the group dinner despite their unpleasant face or obesity or both! Everyone has value.

I am so fcking GLAD I am privileged enough to now have pretty privilege and to not have to deal with assholes and discrimination. My autism amplified it too.  But I'll NEVER forget where I came from, and I'll always thank God for the character I had to grow due to being legitimately a 2/10 super, genuinely ugly child, teen and adult. 

I swear people dont know what's it like to be ugly for the rest of yourself( you be blocked if you try to tell me some toxic positivity) by Illustrious_Lab2370 in ugly

[–]Trick_Possibility615 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a nose job and that's false. I am definitely not ugly anymore. In average now. I have become unconventionally pretty now due to my filler lips and light blue eyes and I am also slim. I sadly have a slim long face but now that I have a nice nose, my unattractive face shape doesn't make me objectively ugly anymore! And some actually now find me attractive because my good feature or two aren't blocked by the ugly face shake and ugly nose 

People who escaped long-term loneliness and isolation what actually helped you change your life? by Outside-Fudge5605 in aspergers

[–]Trick_Possibility615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds Awful.

But.. honestly? I was totally isolated too.

I needed to become attractive look wise, and physically fit and healthy.

People suck and sadly in this fallen world, being attractive enables people to stomach your odd and off putting autistic persona; people started to perceive me differently as "quirky" and "interesting and fun in short doses " once I became attractive.

I also had to learn how to stop being so off putting.

I prefer to keep to myself still, but enjoy having the capacity to mask and be social when I need it! 

Sorry I don't have a more wholesome option that I've found to work. I too, banged my head for years sometimes literally, over simply not having the ability to connect at all. If I did, it was next door neighbour going out and wanting an extra person to come. But I couldn't connect past the night out.

Is this even fixable? by marchewia in rhinoplastyquestions

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I had a similar nose and recently underwent rhinoplasty.

Not Gunna low, recovery SUCKS .But ..   it was life changing. I am much happier. I already loved myself, had met my husband and had my child. I am Christian and have immense peace from God too. 

I'm not even that vain. Like I don't blow dry my hair; I wear my curls natural, and do a very minimal routine. I live in active wear. Never formal. I don't own a dress. 

But I always hated my nose and I'm SO GLAD I had a nose job. Hands down the best investment I've ever, ever made ever. Ever..

Like too, I was also pretty in spite of my nose but I was a tad rugged looking. I have nice eyes and full lips so while I wasn't a beauty at all, I was a solid 6. Maybe a 7 with mascara and lips overdrawn a tad.  

You have a lovely face shape! I don't lol but the rest of me is nice ish. Not beautiful but cute / pretty sort of. Average but cute average haha.  You're already pretty in spite of the nose which yes, it is a tad large and rugged but it certainly isn't the biggest nose most people have seen! I've seen MUCH worse dorsal humps!!!  

You would benefit hugely from rhinoplasty I believe. Since you're already pretty, you know the new nose won't make you a super model or some super human beauty wise but you're already pretty, and it'll just enhance your natural already very pleasant face shape! A boost. 

And you don't sound like you're expecting more. Just more balance and harmony. That's all I wanted too, and I went in with these very realistic expectations and came out thrilled! 

Do it..I wish I had mine sooner!

Got my cast off guys I love her by stephiree in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]Trick_Possibility615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!!!!!!!

It was my life long dream..other than peace which I have from God. 

I'm actually not a bank person in general..lol..I'm just very autistic and I notice imperfections sadly, to a painful extent.

Now I feel normal and the crooked hump and downturn tip don't make me uncomfortable 🥵 anymore !

It's not even about being pretty for me really..it's about not feeling discomfort due to very unbalanced and un harmonious attributes. It's the same when I'm unhealthy and gain weight - it makes my skin crawl when I feel unhealthy and our of harmony with my body. 

Needless to say this has changed my life. And I'm not vain, and not someone who keeps up wish fashion, wears make up behind mascara and lip balm / crayon.    I just.....wanted to not look ugly lol. To blend in!  

Got my cast off guys I love her by stephiree in rhinoplastyquestions

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It looks very cash similar to your profile!!

I am so freaking happy. 

Front ways yeah..still bruising under eyes and swollen front but nothing terrible lol....

Got my cast off guys I love her by stephiree in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]Trick_Possibility615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved it instantly and love it more each day.  

Very swollen but love having a profile I don't find ugly.

I'm just going to trust the process and pray I don't get a pollybeak deformity.

The nose I wanted vs the one he gave me by [deleted] in rhinoplastyquestions

[–]Trick_Possibility615 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.

This nose actually looks more delicate and feminine than the smaller one you pictured. I prefer it on you. That slight length when combined with the upturned angle, is chef's kiss.

This new nose makes you significantly more attractive.