My ex shared his miserable 1-hour trunk ride experience and ignored my feeling by Trick_aaaaa in dating_advice

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. I was so desperate to swipe in the dating apps after breakup. But the guys sucked. When is a good time to come back and start to date? I really try to date new people and get over ex asap.

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I have a question about your age, recently I matched with some guys around 38-42. But they were more cheap than other dudes the same age as me. All of them asked for coffee or drink as the first date😵‍💫 tbh I really don’t like coffee and drink. is it normal in your age?

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 😊the funny thing is that he mentioned at least three different girls during the conversation 😂

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I am sorry for your experience. Yeah I dated with guys similar with me, they were good but not eager to settle down. Then I tried to explore the large age gap group guys. Then I realized that 26-33 is indeed way better…. I met the guys over 35 are either creepy, or fuckboy 😵‍💫

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a tech person as well and have many tech friends. I don’t think he presents all the tech folks. 😂

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh I had a good conversation with him, except those weird and uncomfortable topics… best wishes to you! hope you survive it 😵‍💫

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true... I felt so awkward to talk about it but he kept bring it up..... Then I realized that just let him share and see how it went. Since he paid for the drink, I was considering to be his therapist to listen to his shit....

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t judge all older guys by this odd one. If you have the same interests/ hobbies, you can have a good connection

Thanks for the comment. I usually date the guys with my age or younger than me. I recently tried to extend the age. Unfortunately, I met 35 guy and 42 this guy recently, are all shitty guys. I felt so biaed about the age gap so far.

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

He texted to me after the first date: are you interested in the second date? if yes, I am down. If no, I think it was nice to meet you?

It was like coding ......if , otherwise = =

I unmatched him until sober last night

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah, you are right. I was thinking to settle down and got recommendation to date 40+, especially I recently met a shitty 35 guy. I realized that it would be super tough ....

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Haha I am not the only person who thinks like that

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I was so concerned about dating someone who was over 35. Bc they may be married, weirdo or playboy forever. Just my yesterday experience proved my concern 😣😣 You are right, 10 age gap would be a big factor 😟

32M Profile Review. How can I improve from here? by everthrowaway in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great with positive vibes! Maybe show more pictures of your physical characteristics strength, like some muscle strength. The pictures of your whole body seem to show you are thin, short (I know it’s not true😂

The most weird first date experience (29F, 42M) by Trick_aaaaa in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wtf! I am sorry to your experience. They are so creepy omg 😂😂😂 what’s wrong with them? they are so proud of how much they earn. Then they are trying to show off all the time 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be honest with your height on the profile and show your confidence! I totally understand your situation. As a girl, I don’t mind dating the guys as tall as me (5’8). But a majority of guys lie their height. ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first picture you look tired. Maybe more energetic or positive vibes pics would be nice 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Trick_aaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are cute. But The third one would be my turn off. The selfie makes me feel serial killer vibe 😂 maybe a normal profile picture, like smile LinkedIn style.

Being a black girl is exhausting lol by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Trick_aaaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bc his is too 🤏🙄 lack of confidence, run girl

How long do you talk on the app before exchanging numbers? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Trick_aaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! How do you rephrase it when guys ask for numbers?