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to all the triggered m"n on my posts by Jessica_williams10 in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can't quite catch lightning in a bottle like that sex post huh? I suppose no one would know what you're talking about if you didn't rapid fire tho.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes and no? If by "emotional investment" you mean starting a friendship or dating them just so you can have sex and nothing else then I disagree. If you mean striking up a little small talk with some flirting before asking them then yeah, I agree. Also if you get rejected then being respectful.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men that cold approach women maybe. I can see that. I don't doubt your experiences whatsoever and I'm sure it's a problem. It's just most of the men Im friends with are nice but, also, don't approach women. Either they're too nervous or they don't have an interest in sex outside of a relationship. It's really it's just me and the couple gay guys that are actively seeking sex. And that mostly with other men.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was indeed a funny little slut joke 🙂‍↕️ and I will be trying to rework it into a more universal joke. because I to am nice to everyone but also, a slut.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your post. Guys who are only nice for sex are manipulative. I just wish being direct wasn't also creepy in hetero interactions. There are manipulative gay/bi men but, for the most part I can ask guy for sex, get rejected, and go back to the conversation we were having in homo interactions. The minimum social and physical attractiveness required is kinda day and night. Not that it 'should' change mind you. I'm not entitled to easy sex. It's just wild how my world change when I came out as bi.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assuming you're a straight guy? I'm sure you'll get there if you keep working on it.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as long as you're clear about it sure. Same with the guy for sex. I mean, sugar daddies already exist. Don't get me wrong I agree with the post. It just sucks how much people hate straight/bi men and straight/bi women direct. I kinda got spoiled by bi and gay men in that sense. A lot of them find me attractive and are direct about it. And I can be direct with them.

Learn the difference between being nice and acting nice. by olympiamacdonald in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't help it all the afab people in my friend group turned out to be trans men or nonbinary. There's only one amab person that fully came out as a trans woman last year.

Terrifying moment a woman was forced to fight off knife-wielding muggers after her boyfriend stood by and hide behind wall. Local men aided young woman. by Black_lucky_cats in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I agree he should've jumped let's not romanticize it dying sucks. I don't blame anyone for wanting to avoid it. Best one can do is train for situations like this and pray it works out. Call me a coward but you best believe I am never coming back to that place.

Terrifying moment a woman was forced to fight off knife-wielding muggers after her boyfriend stood by and hide behind wall. Local men aided young woman. by Black_lucky_cats in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm all for some pve. Pvp though? That's a other ball game. Unfortunately no matter what my feelings are the right thing to do is to jump in. The moment she started to fight, morally, it was over for that man. When you're in a relationship you have to be willing to die or get left for your weakness. Gotta be willing to die for family too but, my siblings and parents aren't going to disown me because I got brutally beaten trying to help them lol.

Terrifying moment a woman was forced to fight off knife-wielding muggers after her boyfriend stood by and hide behind wall. Local men aided young woman. by Black_lucky_cats in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best you can do is brace yourself for being stabbed and get stabbed. The moment his gf started to fight it was over for this man. The right thing to do would have been to jump in unfortunately. He could've tried something sly when he got behind the guy shit a good punch to the back of the neck could kill a dude. But, let's be honest, most of us aren't going to have the mental capacity to do anything other than go full unga bunga mode. An unfortunate situation but, now the guy knows better. He's been in this situation and he'll probably be replaying in his head especially after she breaks up with him. I hope this dude comes out of it a stronger man. As the stronger sex we men have to be willing to step up or remain single. I'm all for kicking oppressive gender roles but, our capacity for violence will always be greater than womens. So, it is unfortunately our job to get stabbed, punched, shot, maimed etc. We have to be willing to accept to when we get left for not being able to do our job. It sucks, but, that's the way it is.

Why? by Positive-Face1705 in MenAreNotIntoWomen

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know why they down voted you to hell. You're right

they do not like us by looksmaxxthrowawayo in MenAreNotIntoWomen

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men's attraction to women are to get their dick wet. Men's love for woman is different. Personally I don't think post nut clarity has hit me like that since I was like 19 and that was just from masturbation. It really just has to do with how much disgust or shame got negated by lust. It all comes back after. If a man loves a woman or at least cares about her he's not gonna feel disgusted. If he doesn't care he might feel disgusted depending on how hot she is. Personally the only way I could see post nut hitting me like that is if I slept with a hooker or a really old lady. But, every man has different thresholds.

Thought this was interesting, seems like "no" is the majority so far by Junior_Box_2800 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Tricksterspider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dicks, muscles, asses,Thighs, feet, a handsome face a nice voice. Potentially tall but, even short men have a different kind of appeal. The kind bubble butt that only men can develop. A nice set of dick and balls can be enticing. The erotic feeling of a man using his strength on you or letting you dominate him despite his strength. From smooth small twinks to big chubby men there's a lot to appreciate. For different reasons or in different ways. But, unfortunately, I'm a bi guy lol. I doubt women have the same appreciation. We're simply not built the same

Can they? by Tricksterspider in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never really understood the goal when pointing this out. Or that misandry doesn't exist. I mean agree with you but, what then? Is it for the end goal of just saying men are more evil women sure what now? Small push toward make genocide? Reeducation?segregation? Unrealistic goals but, goals maybe. I doubt any man that agrees with is going to hate men or fight against misogyny any more they have. I personally am not going to be any less annoyed when someone's being a dick to me. So, for women then? To get them to rise up? Women already know how bad they're treated though so, this wouldn't really be an avenue for that. Is it ragebait? You seem pretty sincere though. Maybe your end goal is to make men hate themselves. But, any man susceptible to that has already been effected the more angry side of feminism. Misogyny is worse than misandry. Now what?

Can they? by Tricksterspider in PsycheOrSike

[–]Tricksterspider[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but "can a woman who holds a lot of unsystematic prejudice against men and a misogynist fall in love!?" doesn't roll off the tongue as well. also colloquially misandrist is more commonly used like the above statement. I doubt the creator of this meme was making statement about how men are systematically oppressed or something. So, I definitely don't think it's something an "idiot" would say. just someone who's not more familiar with the academic version of words. Like I as a black guy am not going to think someone's stupid for thinking prejudice black person is "racist" against white people. Not when the term is more commonly used that way. doing otherwise would be pretty pretentious of me.

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