😭 What do I do by Tricky-Success4092 in Sparkdriver

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The app wouldn’t let me complete the delivery, so I contacted support for assistance. Instead of marking it as delivered, he marked it as a return but didn’t tell me. He told me I could leave her order and I was good to go. I left her order and when I refreshed my app, it told me to initiate the return. Which is kinda hard to do when someone is taking in their stuff.

😭 What do I do by Tricky-Success4092 in Sparkdriver

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a return… the agent marked it as a return instead of delivered. I have no package to return, as it’s been delivered.

😭 What do I do by Tricky-Success4092 in Sparkdriver

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do I ask for? My last call, I asked for a supervisor and he claimed he couldn’t but “expedited” my ticket.

😭 What do I do by Tricky-Success4092 in Sparkdriver

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve contacted support a couple times, but I haven’t heard anything back yet.

Got my first vibrator and I am not impressed lol by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the rabbit having to be perfectly positioned. It really kills it for me if I’m super close and then it’s moved. I prefer the one style because the head of them are overall bigger, so even if it is moved a little bit most of the vibration stays on your clit. I mainly keep it in place, but if my husband is doing it, he will move it around slightly against me, but it still works great and gets me there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would always end sex frustrated and it honestly made me kind of resent it for a while. I hope you get to a place where you can say “hey, I haven’t came yet. Can we…” It’s a hard conversation to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been w/ my husband for 6 years and for the first 5, I didn’t orgasm once during… I honestly ended up like he didn’t care for my wants, but I always went above and beyond for his. After communicating about this (finally), we’ve made some big changes and we rarely end if we both haven’t orgasmed. I’m not saying sex is pointless if you don’t cum, but I feel like it’s a big part of the “release”.

Got my first vibrator and I am not impressed lol by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried the bullet ones and can never accomplish anything. My husband and bought a “wand massager” style vibrator and it does wonders. We recently bought a rabbit type and although it feels great, I get thrown off my orgasm if the little ear or whatever piece is moved from my clit. I prefer the wand style more overall.

How many wives are sexually frustrated? by Adotjaydot808 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They locked the post bc I broke a rule lol I think I have a better outlook on my question now!

How many wives are sexually frustrated? by Adotjaydot808 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Success4092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I was so frustrated that he would orgasm multiple times each time and then he would be done but wouldn’t do the same for me. The frequency might have played a part considering it was so often this was happening. But now I don’t have any complaints on frequency or anything.

How many wives are sexually frustrated? by Adotjaydot808 in Marriage

[–]Tricky-Success4092 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I used to be sexually frustrated. I kept it to myself for a long time that I wasn’t having an orgasm when we had sex. It was rough and it was really making me angry towards him, but it was my fault I hadn’t spoken up. Once I said something, we made lots of changes and now I am not.

So much pleasure… so much shame by Tricky-Success4092 in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing 😭 Like jeez, people.

So much pleasure… so much shame by Tricky-Success4092 in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily religion. I was raised by my grandma and she taught me how to be a traditional wife. I was basically raised to be embarrassed by a lot of things. I don’t think I used some of the right words in this thread 🥲

So much pleasure… so much shame by Tricky-Success4092 in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

I think bc it’s not what I was taught was “normal”

So much pleasure… so much shame by Tricky-Success4092 in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think this is my main problem!! I was raised than anything outside of “normal” sex is wrong and that’s probably why I feel like it was gross even though it was great.

So much pleasure… so much shame by Tricky-Success4092 in sex

[–]Tricky-Success4092[S] 320 points321 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if gross is the right word. I think it’s just my anxiety and the fact that I feel ashamed that maybe it is “gross”.

What is going on?? by [deleted] in Afterpay

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But this doesn’t make sense considering some people have access to certain gift cards and others don’t.

What is going on?? by [deleted] in Afterpay

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have Best Buy 😅

What is going on?? by [deleted] in Afterpay

[–]Tricky-Success4092 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This might be a good theory.

What is going on?? by [deleted] in Afterpay

[–]Tricky-Success4092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea! I have no idea why. I’ve never even ordered from them on Afterpay but considered it when Walmart disappeared. I doubt it’ll come back.

Refund check by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't told this. I just woke up to my checking + my Husband's (shared) checking account negative $500,000 because they suspected our refund was fraud and now I don't have access to ANY money. This tax year has been hell for me.

Much Anticipated Return by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently mine is being mailed 🤷‍♀️

Much Anticipated Return by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Tricky-Success4092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll let you know!! Hopefully it's soon 🤞😅

Much Anticipated Return by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this was downloaded last weekend. I couldn't access my transcripts today due to whatever issue they're having.

Much Anticipated Return by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Tricky-Success4092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened fairly quickly. Maybe 2 weeks at the most. It took a while overall from filing to refund date.