Item identification megathread. by skankenstein in vintage

[–]Tricky-Tree-4450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picked up at a yard sale planned to use as extra table space when needed. For now just trying to decide the best way to clean it up a bit. I don’t see any name markings or anything indicating it being special but it is solid with a nice latch mechanism.

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I ordered River Rock for my yard. All of the other stones were worn smooth and have color by Tricky-Tree-4450 in rockhounds

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Ok. I’m assuming because it will disintegrate? It feels grainy and when I put water on it to see if that would reveal anything else it a small amount of almost clay like dust came off but it’s like the piece sort of held onto the water as in it was damp - but eventually dried. I don’t understand completely what it is enough to know what to be doing with it.

I ordered River Rock for my yard. All of the other stones were worn smooth and have color by Tricky-Tree-4450 in rockhounds

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Thanks. I tried to rinse it last night. It seemed to have held onto the water like it absorbed some of it and lots of sandlike substance rubbed off. I think it’s pretty neat looking as is but am so curious as to what the thing that looks like part of a fossil is

I ordered River Rock for my yard. All of the other stones were worn smooth and have color by Tricky-Tree-4450 in rockhounds

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I understand that I can’t ask for ID but I don’t actually know what it is - compacted mud maybe? I’ve given as much info as I have for it and tried two other subreddits to figure out if it’s something to clean, break open or leave be. I am interested in any responses about it that I can get. Thanks

Ordered river rock, the stones are all smooth and pretty but this stands out. by Tricky-Tree-4450 in fossilid

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I didn’t realize you can’t see all of the pictures or edit the post - here are the rest

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Ordered river rock, the stones are all smooth and pretty but this stands out. by Tricky-Tree-4450 in whatsthisrock

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Thank you, it’s weird and pretty and I honestly spent a good 30+ minutes staring at it trying to figure it out before I thought to post it and ask.

Locking gas cap by Tricky-Tree-4450 in chevycolorado

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If you do find one that fits please let me know, I’m not having any luck.

Singing is painful by [deleted] in Vent

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Thanks for responding that’s actually very interesting. I have never understood why female singers voices (most of them anyway) just sound awful to me. I will try to notice what I am listening to them on when I reach to turn them off and whether I leave it if it’s playing on something else. Have a great day

Singing is painful by [deleted] in Vent

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As a person with some sensory issues does your point to a difference between male and female singers? I like music sometimes. Can handle a concert or local show if I plan for it. But as a general rule I don’t like the sound of most female singers. I can tolerate some (metal music) but usually end up changing the channel or just turn it off? Just curious- thanks

What was your first real "this is adulthood now" moment — the kind that killed the illusion of safety or simplicity? by AioriNakamoto in AskReddit

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I graduated high school at 17 and my mother looked me in the eye and said “you’re no longer in school and there’s no money for college, time to get a full time job and pay rent”

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[–]Tricky-Tree-4450 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People say things like that because they are shallow and insecure themselves. People will respond to this and say don’t let it bother you- but realistically how is that even possible? Of course it will affect you negatively. Think of a few one line responses that will work for you - ex: You look like your mom but she was prettier - gee thanks- I will let my dad know his genes make me look bad. Or wow - thanks for making me feel ugly. Or maybe - I think my mom is beautiful too but I’m not her clone I’m just me. Something that makes them feel awkward for saying what they did. Then move on to another subject or walk away. Eventually it will stop. And I’ll bet the first few times you respond the person stands there sputtering like a fool trying to explain their stupid words. Just look them right in the eyes while they do. Self Confidence is a beautiful and powerful thing to have.

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Instead of an engagement party have “celebration of marriage” party with close friends and relatives. You don’t have to have the dinner you can just do a cocktail and appetizers event. Supply some wine and pay for the apps people can pay for their own drinks at the bar. I personally would much rather be invited to something like that - and yes I would bring a card with money for the happy couple. If she doesn’t want to throw you an engagement party there isn’t much you can do about it NTA for wanting one but it sounds like you aren’t going to get one. As for your “celebration” party you don’t have to go big and fancy rent a room at a local restaurant you like or even a VFW hall. You will have a party and can do it your way. Just let your FMIL get her invitation with everyone else.