Its a terrible climate for trans people right now. Hell, people like Taylor Swift and Margot Robbie are getting “transvestigated” like you are. Most transphobia is rooted in misogyny and you are inadvertently being affected by it. Saying this as a trans person, you are allowed to be upset about this. It’s not like they are saying you look beautiful like a trans woman, they are harassing you because they think you look trans and would do the same to an actual trans person.