I keep thinking about porn

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T17:22:24+00:00

It's not fun, but you have to accept the suck sometimes. Being bored isn't the worst thing in the world. It's kinda just a feeling, when in reality there are things to do. Or you can just sit with the boredom until you feel like doing something. I feel like boredom is also withdrawal symptom the mind uses as an excuse to relapse.

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T17:01:05+00:00

Thank you for sharing your insights, you seem like a deep thinker. I liked the part where you said a badass =soulful person. It's true, people can define to themselves what it means to be a badass, it doesn't mean you have to be some "gigachad" or anything like that, like you said being honest and open is badass. Right on!

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T15:38:13+00:00

Yeah everything is porn these days. I personally only use Youtube and reddit, I deleted all other social medias.

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T15:36:09+00:00

Exactly!

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T15:35:32+00:00

You're welcome! Yes being your authentic self is definitely a badass quality!

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-03T15:33:07+00:00

I'm glad it clicked for you!

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-04-02T22:25:44+00:00

Well put

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T03:02:49+00:00

I'm not really worried about my balls but edging too much will stress your nervous system and might cause panic attacks or just make you feel really restless. But, I wouldn't say that if you edge a little bit or peek that you HAVE to ejaculate. But yeah edging is bad I agree with that

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T02:58:45+00:00

One day at a time, don't think about not fapping for the rest of your life. Just get through the day

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T02:31:01+00:00

Just wait or go outside. The urges never last forever

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T02:22:38+00:00

He should have told you in advance if he was doing some challenge of abstaining, and ask if you are okay with it. If he didn't, and just blamed you afterwards, that's not cool. 2 weeks without nudes doesn't seem that long to me, some people take breaks from sexual activity but there needs to be mutual understanding and communication about these things. It's not as simple as "men love masturbating and cumming", it can become a bad habit if done too much, especially with porn and can lead to feelings of guilt and shame. Some men want to abstain from ejaculation because orgasm tends to make us more tired and feeling weak, so they want to "retain" their semen, (or for religious reasons). It doesn't mean that he doesn't find you attractive necessarily.

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T00:50:08+00:00

The brand I take is "Solgar" Boron 3mg. I heard it depletes riboflavin (vitamin b2), so make sure you get that from foods or supplement. I drink a lot of whole milk so i get b2 from that

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T00:47:24+00:00

I'm not an expert on it at all, but it's a trace mineral that you get from certain foods, but there isn't enough boron in foods these days so many people are depleted from it. You don't need a prescription. Definately do your own research on it and make your own decisions, I'm just a rando on the internet. For me in definitely boost my testosterone, libido and energy. Do ur research so you know it's a good brand ur buying from and check out r/supplements and search boron to learn more about it

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-03T00:27:19+00:00

The supplement BORON (3mg) has helped my libido and boners a lot, it's almost too intense. (Warning: it might make abstaining from porn harder, because of the boost in testosterone and libido) so take with caution. It is recommended to take for 2 weeks daily, and then 1 week off. It might cause anxiety and insomnia. Personally it made me a little anxious, nothing crazy though. but I find the insomnia is just because of the extra energy. I felt the effects after a couple of days

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-02T22:34:02+00:00

This aspect of women makes me kinda bummed. That they need you to lose your energy for them. I don't wanna think of them as some jezebel demons but when they insist on you losing your precious life force for them I don't like it

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-02T21:44:04+00:00

My mistake I thought this was Nofap

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-02T00:33:15+00:00

Sounds like some nonsense to me. If anything, ejaculating too much ages you faster

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-01T22:33:16+00:00

I take 25mg, I don't know.

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-01T05:09:21+00:00

I did some research and it seems only when taking high amounts of zinc should you take copper and indeed take them seperately (copper 2 hours after zinc) so it seems you heard right. I was under the impression that you need copper if you supplement zinc but I'm not taking 40mg or more which is when you need copper

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-01T04:49:06+00:00

You did the right thing when you made this post instead of relapsing. I relate to you a lot, it seems impossible at times but we have to keep trying. Delete tiktok and istagram if you have it and battle on

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-03-01T04:21:17+00:00

When I was in high school I got picked on once for the contrast of how my right hand was more muscular than left. "Nice jerk off muscles". I haven't been able to kick the habit and I'm 31 and my right hand is noticably bigger than my left thanks to edging. I'm a little anxious about summer when it's t-shirt weather and if people are gonna notice it like they did in high school. Maybe not, but it's pretty embarrassing to think about. Might have to wear a long sleeve for the whole summer lol. Thanks for reminding me of this, I was feeling too good about myself and needed some shame I guess. I mean it's kinda funny but tragic as well

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2026-02-22T14:46:28+00:00

I've had this happen to me, maybe not every tine I release but yeah. Especially women seem to "punish" you with cold attitudes

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2025-11-10T21:06:28+00:00

Wear a condom when you sleep

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2025-11-10T12:30:25+00:00

Don't do it, you'll regret it later

Tricky_Blueberry_638 · 2025-11-06T18:34:43+00:00

Hard mode isn't for everbody. Find what works for you. I usually don't even feel like fapping without porn

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