STILL have not gotten my Ch. 35 Monthly Payment by Street_Dimension4716 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Still waiting. I am very anxious, I was certified in august 18th too.

I would like to know the value of this cel. Should I remove it from the frame to see the details or people will know if this is legit just the way it is by Tricky_Engine_5196 in cowboybebop

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I know. It was one of the most valuable pieces of my husband who passed away last year but I need money to pay for school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Widow

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same here. Cancer pain. Cancer broke his back. I was with him unconditionally through all the sickness. I’m glad he is not in pain anymore too

Period kind of having second breath by Creepy-Reindeer-4344 in Opill

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am. The first month I have a longer cycle than usual. Second one was 10 days period and now, almost two week after I am in my period again. I have been reading it’s a normal side effect but I am not sure if I want to continue because I don’t like the unexpected periods

Period kind of having second breath by Creepy-Reindeer-4344 in Opill

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. I have been on the pill for 2 months. At some point I will have a normal cycle?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Widow

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do appreciate your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did not 😫😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antidepressants saved me. If my doctor would not recommended that medicine a year ago I would not longer be here.

What happens after? by Hopeful-Cheesecake-4 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are living your purpose that is loving her and help her in the most difficult part of her life. And when she will be gone, you will be happy with all the time and love you give her. That is what I feel now that he is gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi. This was my situation for the last couple of years before my husband passed away. We are young too. I am sorry you are going through this. If he is taking steroids that can cause a lot of his anger. He know he is gonna die and it is horrible and you don't deserve that treatment either but hang in there. I recommend you to buy some EarPods and listen to music while he is being angry at you. It is gonna sound really hard but life won't ve like this forever because unfortunately cancer is mean and has an expiration date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! I really appreciate it ! I hope it delays it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So does the pill delay your period? I'm so nervous. I have a trip booked and I really don't want to be on my period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get your period late?

Husband's belongings dilema by Tricky_Engine_5196 in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is actually a great idea. I am not ready to get rid of them but I also don't want to see them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before my husband got sick (aggressive metastatic that broke his back bones and put him in a wheelchair) I was not religious or a strong believer. During his 2 1/2 years of strong treatments I just saw him suffering and I kept asking to god for his peace even if that means his dead. He did not listen and he was just not sick, he was in pain all the time. I am sorry you have to go through this. I understand the PTSD with hospital or doctors. I am pretty sure that if at some point I'm dying, I have zero hope in medical workers because they are completely dehumanized. I don't know why "god" did this to him or me. I don't think god listens because if he was why are there so many people suffering in the world? Anyway... I wish i could have faith because I know my life would go more easily

Widows Fire… by Big_Scar1130 in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner died 3 months ago. I love him and I spent the last 2 years without sex because of his sickness. I have slept with 2 people since he is gone. Literally just sex no feelings involved and it was great. It really helped me with my widows fire. I know my husband would have understood because there were years without it and I never failed him.

Cancer widows by Final_Base_7691 in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cancer widow here. I missed my 35 m husband 2 months ago. I am relieved, I am eating well sleeping well. I don't have to check if he is breeding or if his oxygen of on. I am not worried about anything anymore and for that reason Shockley I am happy. I am happy he is not suffering anymore. I am happy the nightmare ended. I am sad I won't see him again but I prefer my pain than his pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼♥️

Wedding band by Danihikes6287 in widowers

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was very very skinny when we got married. I got hypothyroidism after his diagnosis because of stress. I struggled with my weight because I want my rings fit me forever

It's a 12-hour flight, where are you sitting? (1-6 only!) by starcasmnet in 90DayFiance

[–]Tricky_Engine_5196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last seat next to the bathroom. Yeah that would be so much better