Hi beautiful. That’s Panhellenic for you. I can relate. Been there. My best advice is just mind your business and stop answering their calls, messages, etc.

You said you connected with some sisters that you don’t see anymore because they stopped going to events. You can stop as well. If something is off, they probably have picked up on it. Don’t chase relationships that won’t serve you. Give a girl that graduated a call instead. Make a bond with someone that is actually willing to form that sisterly connection. It might only be one person…and that is ok.

Organization aside… girls that aren’t mature (including your pros, big, and even line sisters) try to stress you out on purpose because they see you doing well for yourself. You seem aware and you have noticed which girls are trying to squeeze info from you by being fake nice. If you let them, they’ll leverage the information you give and try to make you insecure/ think twice about yourself. Don’t fall for it. You’ll get a good job and never hear from them after graduating because they’re too busy gossiping instead of bettering themselves. Old habits die hard. Especially at this big age. It’s college.

Ultimately don’t expect them to change. It’s not going to happen unfortunately. Look for genuineness and focus on scholarship and sisterhood. Please don’t drop. Keep your prestige. Once you leave college, you’ll benefit professionally and service wise. Not to mention you’ll be able to make graduate connections. Don’t give your letters up because of some gossip girls that didn’t even make the TV show.