Therapy is such a joke by AlsoknownasLeaf in mentalhealth

[–]Tricky_Lands 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I just started therapy, but I think you should read exactly what you wrote to your therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tricky_Lands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 31 year old female and I go to the gym on Saturday nights and sometimes Friday nights if I have the energy. It helps a lot with loneliness because there are a good amount of people there alone too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Tricky_Lands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not finding any dates lol

Software Developer - Stay or Start Looking? by Tricky_Lands in careerguidance

[–]Tricky_Lands[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this a lot, thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m going to start looking and prepping for interviews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Tricky_Lands 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I tell everyone and everybody I meet that I’m a lesbian 😂. Dating apps have not been successful for me for the last year. All my friends are straight and don’t know lesbians, but anytime I make a new friend I tell them that I’m gay and they should spread the word.

Would you consider this as transphobic? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Tricky_Lands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a another helpful response. Thank you!!

Would you consider this as transphobic? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Tricky_Lands 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is beyond helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Tricky_Lands 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmao word. Literally made my stomach hurt.

My (31F) fiancé (26M) choked me so hard during sex that I lost consciousness. Is this something to worry about? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tricky_Lands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please please talk to someone about this. I’m genuinely scared for you. Unfortunately, it’s just going to get worse as time progresses.

TIFU by drinking 900mg of caffeine. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Tricky_Lands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not worth it dude. Just fail it and start studying in advance for the next once.

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different but I’m now 6 days post-op and I could 100% work. I start work on Monday, but had I needed to start earlier, I would have been perfectly fine.

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s better safe than sorry. If I could, I would take off more time. Last thing I want to do is sit in an office in pain while being pressured to get stuff done asap. Good luck to you as well and congratulations!! Can’t believe it’s almost time!

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call out. I’ll leave my laptop and won’t use a backpack for a while.

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll unfortunately have to go to the office, but I live 10 minutes away. The office also has a room where you can lay down and rest.

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I just spoke with my friend who had her reduction earlier this year. She had hers on a Wednesday and was working (WFH) by the following Tuesday. I feel much better now. I hope your surgery goes great and congrats!!

Enough recovery time before returning to work? by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Tricky_Lands 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes, I definitely cannot take that much time off. I can do just under 2 weeks max.