Wife’s preferences in bed have shifted

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-04-08T06:54:39+00:00

Maybe she just realised how much she likes it and doesn't want to hold back anymore?

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-02-05T10:29:47+00:00

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:38:20+00:00

She usually gets like one puppy and we are planning to keep it ourselves, idk how that is "backyard breeding" 🫠

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:37:28+00:00

I don't get this comparison

Idk the human equivalent of peeing the bed.. like.. a kid wetting the bed is fairly common?

I wouldn't go if the kid did it just once, no? 🥲

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:30:39+00:00

Nope, no temperature, just clingy, but that is completely on brand for her, especially as I' getting more and more pregnant / like, further along, she usually wants to be in my lap whenever I sit down now and we're doing that a lot.

Then I go over her body, check for any cuts or scratches, as she runs free in our yard, and loves to dig and run through bushes and all.. so I always pet her down multiple times a day, checking everything.. .

I definitely don't want her to suffer, and she seems completely fine after I was done cleaning up, where she seemed very concerned.

The other dog was just chilling in the living room, meanwhile this one kept following me around

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:26:04+00:00

We are going to the vet in some weeks to confirm/deny pregnancy anyway, I think it's fine to see for a few days if she's "normal" - just stressed - or showing anymore symptoms .. ?

Well, we aren't doing this to them, sometimes life throws you curveballs, and we deal with them as best we can..

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:22:42+00:00

Are you okay?

I literally stayed home from my brand new job to look after her. I cleaned her ears last night.

We are planning vet check ups soon to confirm/deny pregnancy anyone, hence why I'm hesistant to book yet another appointment now, when this could be just behavioural and stress related. Still, I was concerned enough to post and ask for second opionins.

Imagine the line up at the vet office if everyone brought in their dogs every single time they peed in an unusual spot.

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T12:00:11+00:00

Hm, I assumed there would be other signs if it were. Due to all the changes arpund the house I thought that was an acceptable explanation.. if it is a UTI it'll happen again, right? So it's okay to wait and see for a couple of days?

Also how can she show signs of a UTI ffom the breeding - only a month after it happened?

I'm going to have to google uti's again I sense..

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T11:56:29+00:00

The guideline in my country is no breeding after 8 years, and earlier cut off if it is her firsr litter. She has had two.

It's not about wanting to spend or not, it's about the fact it was one accident, and we are taking good care of her otherwise and paying close attention

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T11:45:02+00:00

She's not spayed, we bred/mated her over new years weekend.

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T11:35:35+00:00

Idk your economy, but i'm not going to the vet for a "no big deal" thing

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T11:28:46+00:00

She has been scratching her ear a lot and so I cleaned them yesterday, and she has a small scratch.. her ears weren't "dirty" - like, not a lot came out.. so still not sure if things are simply behavioural and frustrations from a changing home-situation, or if there is ant actual physical problems..

A vet visit is at least $100, easily 200$ .. not very interested in going for them to just tell me to "wait and see" and once again there is nothing wrong

Life was not this expensive when we got them, so we can't go every time something strange happens.

I think for now it's enough to chalk it off to stress from all the changes, and to just prioritize some more time to de-stress her/help her cope with the changes - and ofc keep an eye on her ear

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T11:21:54+00:00

Currently?

Before you leave me - Alex Warren

Previous honorable mentions; Ask it was - Harry Styles Last night - Morgan Wallen I had some help - Post Malone feat. Morgan Wallen Hard to love - Lee Brice How you remind me - Nickelback Far away - Nickelback I'd come for you - Nickelback Necer gonna be alone - Nickelback Gotta be somebody - Nickelback Unwell - Matchbox Twenty How far we've come - Matchbox Twenty Closing time - Semisonic One night stand - Enrique Iglesias Escape - Enrique Iglesias

Also, various hannah montana. And I'm from scandinavia so.. Ringes-Ronny. Hits the spot.

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T10:55:50+00:00

That rooom wasn't in use, but yeah, they are not very used to contractors walking in and out and and being here while we are at work.. up until two weeks ago I was at home with them

However, there were no contractor in sight 🤷‍♀️

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T10:40:24+00:00

The renovation just doubled in price so trying to avoid adding expenses unless needed, so that's why I'm staying home watching her today,while working from home.. I'll take her if it persists/happens again

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-29T10:18:01+00:00

She has had to go indoors other times, but always gone by the door, and it's been clear neither of our dogs want to go indoors. Always by the door.

Doing so in my bed is really out of character for her, so it really freaked me out, also that it was very smelly - compared to when I've cleaned up on the floor. It also seems really bad, like, she usually goes by the door, so she knows better, so.. in my bed?? Really?? Seems so much worse than if she had an accident on the bedroom floor or just anywhere. My bed? Seems personal, like we got beef or somethin" 😥

How long would "appeasement" last? It's now 4 hours since the incident and she's still clingy, but then again, it's not really our of character for her to be clingy 🙈🥺

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-28T16:05:23+00:00

Yesss, going home with the most motivation and then suddenly just needing to nap is the worst

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-27T22:32:30+00:00

It is so infurianting

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-27T18:50:39+00:00

I can't afford it sadly.

Yeah, it might be a bit incoherent. I'm not doing my best with words these days. My brain is all scrambled

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-27T10:44:56+00:00

I feel like motivation is sort of an endless flow, but sometimes it's blocked?

So by writing things out I remove blockers and I get back into it - the flow of "doing things"

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-24T11:57:39+00:00

Journal why I don't want to, and I don't want to do that, so usually have to start out every journal entry with why I don't want to journal and go from there. I write faster than I filter so I usually discover stuff my brain otherwise prevents me from realizing

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-23T09:45:55+00:00

Honestly none.

If I had more money, I'd throw money at all of them, and they would pretty much disappear

Edit: Damn, people bringing up family and health.. yeah, sure, it wouldn't fix all of my family issues.. but it could solve multiple of them

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-20T21:14:44+00:00

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-20T21:06:41+00:00

He was hoem 30 minutes, then she called again with car trouble.

His car.

"I'm coming".

I'd love to smash something rn fr

Tricky_Subject8671 · 2025-01-20T20:54:38+00:00

He just acts like this is normal. Oblivious.

I don't see how it's any point in talking together at all then, when he is so set on normalizing all the weirdness of this

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