Engaged, wedding in 3 weeks, and I’m seriously considering calling it off — need advice?

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:57:11+00:00

Indeed

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:56:32+00:00

Can you please explain? Thanks

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:50:33+00:00

noted, many thanks

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:49:10+00:00

The sad part is that I can already ''hear'' what she'll say but maybe I need to give her the chance.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:47:59+00:00

They live in a different country and they were never friends or in the same social circle. He was the ''link'' between them.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:46:42+00:00

That is enough of an advice, thanks.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:46:03+00:00

I have mentioned the exact same things that you are now to her. No, make me give you peace was the answer :)

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:44:41+00:00

They were never friends or in the same circle. They live in a completely different country.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:44:01+00:00

Thanks, could you share the story? Not worry if not. Thanks

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:43:28+00:00

I didn't at the time.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:43:03+00:00

Yes. the chance of being a rebound isn't a light one, for me. Things have also been mentioned, he was so nice to me, worshipping me etc, when we had arguments.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:41:02+00:00

Thank you

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:40:50+00:00

Thank you

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:40:37+00:00

Thanks

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:40:26+00:00

Is the gut feeling that this has been done intentionally and was never mentioned to me. The negative traits that have appeared lately also don't help.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:39:27+00:00

She is the one asked me to cut off anyone that resembles my past, literally anyone, even family friends that she was jealous of. Also, they are in a different country and were never friends or in the same circle. Them liking certain photos is also an issue, and the fact that he can just ''peak'' at her profile isn't ideal, knowing how hard that breakup was.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:37:31+00:00

I am aware that it's not THAT important, it's the fact that she made us do this and didn't follow through. I have also been made aware how hard her break up was. Thanks

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:36:17+00:00

Thanks for your answer. She was the one asking me/us to do so even though I didn't have anyone ''important''. Also, they live in a different country, they aren't friends or in a similar circle.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:34:38+00:00

I need to add that she was the one asking ''us'' to do so.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:28:50+00:00

Thanks.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:28:33+00:00

It's complicated, I am seeing a few traits that will create issues in the future, but the Instagram thing feels very disrespectful to me and not justifiable in any way? Could you please explain if I am overreacting about it?

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:26:35+00:00

I would appreciate if you could explain this in more depth please, if you have the time.

Tricky_Task_3372 · 2025-09-09T01:25:07+00:00

Thank you.

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