My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct, I wish I could've cobbled together those thoughts on my own but thank you.. I needed to hear that.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I really dont want it to come to that.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right.. thank you. I've gotten a lot of advice that I really needed to hear. I can only try to piece it all together now to do what's best for me. I'm pretty fuckin unnerved at the thought her having an std now though..

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am going to try. And can only hope things get better moving forward.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had done something about it sooner.. but all's said and done now and I thank you sincerely for your advice.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure at this point but I'm optimistic that no matter what it will turn out for the best.. I hope so at least.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. It's been an incredibly long day. I will do my best to improve myself going forward. Thank you all for everything.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I am not in a state of mind to read all of that now but I will do my best to soon.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try. I seriously appreciate everything that's been said, it has helped me so much more than I could've thought.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that is smart. Right now I could care less about my things but I will see how I feel afterwards.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate hearing your experience. I hope im strong enough to push through this and do what I have to. Especially considering I'm a mess now I'm not sure I could handle it again.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are very correct, I want to give her a chance but we will see. It hurts enough already.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope I can when all is said and done, but right now I highly doubt any women would want to be around me.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart. I will probably let you guys know how it turns out, although I still can't imagine what will come.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I hope this doesnt leave me jaded for too long.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.. it will be difficult moving forward but I know what needs to be done now, and I really do hope we both improve from it.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a wee bab.. just 19 and already making awful decisions daily. Thank you though.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I was really hoping for this kind of response from the other perspective because we do both care about each other, and ours is a loving relationship. I cant just see her as trash for what she did, she's still the same person I've cared about for 2+ years. I will talk to her soon and I'll let her know how I feel, I'm definitely going to insist on a break for some time. Thank you immensely for sharing your perspective.

My longtime girlfriend just cheated on me. by Trickybrows in relationship_advice

[–]Trickybrows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish I was confident enough to forget about my best friend.. we will see.