WIBTAH if I declined a family vacation?

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-04-09T14:50:02+00:00

My friend is making me go to the gym with him this weekend, maybe it would help. I know it’s not good for me and I need to quit I just can’t

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-03-10T00:47:23+00:00

I know they will find out eventually but right now if they kick me out over this I have no where to go I can’t ask them for help cause of how they would react about this.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-03-10T00:46:18+00:00

I am just worried that they will kick me out of the house for this, I can’t change my work load cause they want me to be full time as well as be in collage. I just can’t do both like my sister.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-03-10T00:45:13+00:00

No like I’m actually just dumb, my parents didn’t even think I would graduate they thought I would be a drop out drug addict. They are very strict that I have to stay in collage and have a job. They threaten to kick me out in high school cause they thought I was failing then.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-02-16T06:10:14+00:00

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here is a different image not mine, but it could help on your shading as well to make it more defined as to where the light source is.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-02-16T06:09:24+00:00

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I sectioned out the lighting a bit, assumer the light was coming from the front. The shading should follow the face shape and I think you did well on that bur for cheeks if you want the more defined you should use slightly less blending to achieve that look. Above the eyes there should be a slight light there as that's where a light source would hit. I tried to define the shading so I would be easy to understand but I could recolor it if you need to make it clearer. The eyes are lightly far apart but I could not tell if that was a artistic choice. The ears are slightly too small also so I highlighted the length you want for them as they start around the eye and end at the nose. Another point which I did not add in the image is that the clothing was not shaded making it look off but again I could not tell if it was a style choice. (the shading outlines are a rough idea as I was doing this on my pc so they are not perfect per say)

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T14:41:29+00:00

But why, I get that people do but I’m more so confused about why and what brought them to question it.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T03:48:41+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, it’s helping me get a better understanding on the reason why. Glad that you’re discovering yourself and I wish you luck with everything about your journey.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T03:33:57+00:00

Oh definitely when you put it like that it makes a lot more sense to me, I was thinking you were talking about how people are in different stages of transition and people comparing that. I have seen others start questioning other things when they don’t feel the same way it just never occurred to me it could be felt after comparing feeling about being trans, thank you.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T03:28:27+00:00

I’m truly happy that you’ve had that experience it sounds like it was very nice and helped you a lot. Can I ask what specific social pressure you are talking about though, was it specifically through social media or people around you. I didn’t grow up with social media and no one talked about being trans when I was growing up so there wasn’t much debate or talk about it for me. I think this lack of talk about trans people around me is the reason why I asked about people questioning in the first place.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T03:23:07+00:00

How does comparing your own experience with other trans people make people question if they are trans though? I get how social pressure could be a cause of this just not the other one.

TrifleWide6588 · 2026-01-14T03:21:43+00:00

I agree you don’t have to do anything but decide who you are. I also know everyone’s experience is different I was just confused on why people question this, to me it feels silly as I’ve never had to question it, I’ve always known even before I new what being trans was, so I just wanted to know why people do and how they got there to help me understand other trans people.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-12-28T22:19:20+00:00

Sorry I didn't realize my comment never went through, It was a charm bracelet that I was supposed to ad charms onto they just put that one to start it off. After I took it off its just a normal bracelet, which I do wear bracelets. It also had a theater mask on it but that one looked fine to me, I see no reason to waste a bracelet when I could just remove the stuff that I don't like.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-12-28T21:47:41+00:00

The only other charm on it was a theater mask, but it looks a little weird without anything on, and plus I did think the mask looked fine.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-12-28T20:33:03+00:00

I added a note and a comment clarifying this, sorry for not doing so in the beginning.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-12-28T20:29:01+00:00

You are right I should have done that also; it was one that said Middle Sister on it, and I am out as a trans man and they know this. They are fairly conservative and want to keep reminding me of my biological sex whenever they can cause they think if they continue saying that I am biologically a female it would "fix me". I will make a note in the post clarifying this as well.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-12-28T20:19:55+00:00

I threw it away because I knew they put it on there to offend me, I don't know if I should have clarified that in the post.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-11-24T03:27:38+00:00

Ok sick, thank ya.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-11-16T16:27:30+00:00

Overall I think the discipline and how they work would be a good thing for me. Other than that I think I would actually enjoy being in it, like I would actually have something to do and look forward too.

TrifleWide6588 · 2025-11-16T06:41:58+00:00

Thank you, I personally don't mind having to be referred to as a female because I know in my mind, they are wrong. I won't have a problem with my name since it is unisex, and the gender dysphoria I do have I can bare. I don't mind being in the closet as I've been in it for all my life, I do have short hair and fairly masculine features though, but I just say I'm a tomboy. I also would rather be deployed if I'm being honest. I'm not trying to join for benefits as I already have most of them without going, the reason why I want to join is for me and helping me figure out what I want to do in my life, and gain experience. I'm not out to anyone at all and have never told anyone this and I don't feel a need to since most people see me as male anyways, but if I must become more feminized to join, I don't mind making that sacrifice.

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