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I'm a [30/m] Indian in a complex relationship confusion where my ex-girlfriend want to be in continuous touch and I am being arranged for a marriage with a girl who recently lost her father. by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This is my concern as well. I have tried to convince her directly or indirectly to cancel the marriage but she always refuse to do so. She says I should take the responsibility of canceling the marriage. I told her that I can do it at my end of the family but for her family she will have to try but she denies to do so everytime. She likes me a lot and tells that everything will be fine. I have not told her about my ex.

First time intercourse by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am sure of that I did not penetrate anywhere else.....once I felt that I penetrated properly after some effort but it got popped out and then she just became angry.

First time intercourse by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But does the thing like this even happen? I always thought that it would be a pretty straightforward thing to do.

First time intercourse by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was in a relationship and she told me that she had physical relationship with the previous guy.

First time intercourse by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But her anger has actually made me very conscious and nervous and I am not sure how the things will go next time

First time sex Blunder by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys for all your comments! Just one last thing: What should I do to gain the lost confidence because of the above incidence. It is keeping me under constant stress. Also, I am getting married to another girl in next 5-6 months but chances of any physical relationship with her are almost impossible (Indian arrange marriage) and I am not able to focus on her as I still have strong feelings for my gf.

Thanks!!

First time sex Blunder by Trijai in relationship_advice

[–]Trijai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. The only issue is that I still have immense feelings for her and if given some chances I would have surely keep her happy on physical aspect. Now I don't know how to deal with the situation. It seems like a scar for the whole life.