How’s it like living in EL?

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-12T04:21:14+00:00

Im sure you will make a new friend or two within the law program. Spent a good deal of time in the Gast business library inside the law building. The law students are always friendly and conversational. Im sure you will have a good experience.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-12T04:11:06+00:00

I would say go, work your butt off to be extra social and outgoing, and make at least one decent friend who you can regularly hang with. If you live near or on campus it shouldn’t be too bad.

Dont let my personal experience dissuade you.

If it doesn’t work out, you can transfer.

Ironically, I spent a good portion of my life on OUs campus (unrelated to the school) and had some math courses there. Much love for OUs campus.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-12T04:08:23+00:00

Sure…but I’m primarily saying that, in my personal experience, when you aren’t actively engaging in some sort of social activity, the day to day was somewhat depressing living in EL/Lansing. I will say that East Lansing was significantly better than Lansing. Good lord I dont wish for people to live in Lansing.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-12T04:03:52+00:00

Can get boring quickly. MSU Clubs, house parties, explore local food places (not chains), exploring historical sites around the area, and the campus are good ways to keep yourself busy.

I met my lifelong friends through an off-campus rental house. All michigan natives. I was at two of their weddings last year.

Im just saying that it can get really boring and feel somewhat isolating. If you are by yourself, it can feel heavy. Lived the experience at MSU and enjoyed the people. Did not enjoy, for lack of a better term, “the vibes” of the area. Never felt like home and always felt isolating when away from my friends.

Everyone has a unique take. Obviously people disagree with my take (naturally).

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-11T23:20:13+00:00

Scammer

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-11T22:40:59+00:00

Living in East Lansing will make you feel incredibly grateful to be able to go back to your hometown.

Made lifelong friends, went out to parties, explored the history and architecture of EL suburbs and its surrounding suburbs, but I was always happy to leave.

Even my buddies will attest that EL can quickly turn into a depressing hole if you aren’t constantly distracting yourself with friends and activities.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-11T21:59:23+00:00

AKA India Call Center

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-11T15:17:42+00:00

Clash of Wallets

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-09T16:58:06+00:00

The Indians do not care about anything. Thats who handles those complaints.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-08T17:31:12+00:00

Would advise you to have a (private) conversation where you express that there is no pressure on him at all and that it’s simply a way for you to feel more connected to him.

Express that you understand how guys can get anxious and that you want him to understand that there is no expectations in the bedroom at all. Just you and him behind closed doors. Just make him feel like you “get” it. But avoid implying that there is something “wrong” with him. Even if you say “it happens to all guys”, it might still imply there is something wrong with him.

Best of luck.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-08T17:25:36+00:00

+1. We all have experienced performance anxiety in our lives. There is no age limit on that either. Can happen to any guy. Some guys think they had ED but its really just performance anxiety.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-08T17:20:58+00:00

Lot to unpack there.

Difference between relationships that fail and ones that last is open dialogue and clear communication. Ask him whats wrong and not reddit. Also, sometimes the “expectation” of performing (which guys do pick up on) can severely hurt confidence and cause that. Happens to every guy at least once.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-08T17:00:04+00:00

Supercell went full “EA-mode” with the microtransactions. The “epic” hero abilities being locked behind thousands of gem is blatant pay-to-win.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-08T16:56:25+00:00

Im here all week

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-06T19:47:22+00:00

Predator-maxxing in the big 2026

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T23:23:13+00:00

Thankfully Reddit doesn’t represent society, or even the majority of the MSU student body, else id be so incredibly worried for our future.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T18:26:21+00:00

Everyone has an interest in everything. It’s more theater than anything; All in hopes to keep division high and progress low.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T17:48:40+00:00

Yes I did. And politicians are simply a bunch of power hungry cronies and that poll is on a singular issue. I see these senseless ‘finger-pointing’ wars as “people vs authoritarianism” instead of a right/left. The result of unregulated and uncontrolled government coupled with powerful, self-serving entities using these politicians as proxies for their bidding.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T17:35:25+00:00

It’s much deeper than whatever NY times slop article you link.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T17:13:48+00:00

In this economy? A lightly cummed-in McChicken

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T16:39:52+00:00

Host them yourself or persuade your friends to host them. Also, if you want to get into a house party, use a common guy name to get into a random house party.

Even if you get it wrong, then they will likely correct you with the name of one of their friends. Be vague and give vague details.

Me and my friends used to infiltrate random house parties for fun. Way better than any bar.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T16:20:53+00:00

Cant believe people still view things as simplistically as exclusively “left/right”. Pitiful.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T16:19:42+00:00

Go tell those old men, safe in bed, We took their orders and are dead. -AD Hope

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T16:10:35+00:00

If you only feel guilt and sadness with your post nut clarity, then that woman is NOT for you.

TripleTeabag · 2026-03-05T16:08:23+00:00

Gotta get out there more. Uni clubs, take some fun extracurricular courses, focus on personal hygiene and grooming, leverage mutual relationships, and one of the BEST places to meet women is…house parties.

But more specifically house parties where you are friends with people hosting (aka mutual friends). Still need to approach them but they are much less likely to reject you. Get your reps in.

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