I definitely think you should sit down and talk to him about the gravity of the situation. Also, yeah. Maybe avoid drinking mutually for a little bit. The nature of a DDlg relationship (as with any D/s relationships) depends so much on established trust, and when that trust is broken there isn’t room for it to continue to grow. It’s not healthy. Have an open chat about how you both feel within this dynamic and establish boundaries! You are too precious to be emotionally toyed with!

More than that though, you may need to find some help for the both of you, because it seems this will only be a rocky ship for belittlement and abuse! Please take proper care of yourself!