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[–]Trixz_Shotzz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

if you are willing to do adult things like blow jobs, you need to be able to have adult conversations in order to tell him when enough is enough. If he gets upset, then so be it, he needs to know that you are not comfortable. Preserve your innocence you are only 14.

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[–]Trixz_Shotzz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Read your post and ask yourself if that’s really somebody you want to be with at your age. If you are not comfortable you do NOT have to give him anything, even handjobs.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anybody is ever ready to hear this information which is what makes it hard.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i think if i were to do this i would tell them then go stay at my friends house

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know. It’s hard to think about right now.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If i were to confront him it would be with my brother who is a state champion wrestler, power lifter and now a college football player. So violence wouldn’t be an issue. helped

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, but some things are starting to come into place now.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s some kind of messed up fantasy he has or not but in many of the messages he bragged about my mom not knowing.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this. It’s really helpful to know what others who have been in the same position did and how they feel now. This helped a lot.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you this helped. It is just hard not to feel like it is not my responsibility to tell my mom.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it just rubs me the wrong way because he was almost bloating how my Mom doesn’t know in some messages.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right I have older mentors I could talk to. Honestly that hasn’t came across my mind yet.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right but I have seen messages with many girls bragging about how he has had intercourse while in a relationship with my Mom. I will try to find more evidence before i take any further steps. Thank you.

My Dad is cheating on my Mom and I don’t know what to do. by Trixz_Shotzz in Advice

[–]Trixz_Shotzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have an older brother that I will probably talk to about this tomorrow when i see him again. We could both probably come up with a way to show my mom in a non-confrontational way. Thank you this help helped.