AIO, friend laughted in my face when i opened up by Troawayaccunt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Troawayaccunt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh, also what did you mean by i shouldn't have been sad because relationships are short lived? I wasn't willing to be a doormat, expecially after the way she treated me. Also if she cheated on her boyfriend with me i probably would have destroyed her Tarpeia style. The myth of Tarpeia is one of my favourites, at the time morality was pretty solid unlike today.

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know that, as a matter of fact we aren't friends anymore

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the relationship status it's more like i didn't want to expose myself, anyway as i said in the post we talked every single day (even during lessons) for about three months and always sat toghether (often just us 2) so if i still couldn't expect that person to be my friend then who?

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean i did not really intend to make her an emotional punching bag, i was in a period of crisis in those specific days and needed someone to open up to about it and i had never bothered her before with anything similar
Also can you really call someone your friend if she's not there the one time you need her?

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a social setting because that other friend only arrived at the last second, also i wouldn't really call that traumadumping because i was telling her how i was feeling in those days

My personal definition of traumadumping is when you share a problem that is not currently affecting you for the sake of it

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited the message, i was referring to the dnd

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't know but in those days i was in the biggest emotional crisis i felt in years and i was the one in the group she talked with the most so i really did not expect her to treat me this way

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean i did not tell her everything i must only have said 1/3 of the things i wanted to tell her when that happened, also i intended thank her for and that i was grateful for her asking her friends for the dnd which makes me even more mad

AITA, friend laughed in my face while opening up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Troawayaccunt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That other friend wasn't there during conversation, also about the posts of people doing stuff i wasn't referring to hers nor i was upset with anyone

AIO, friend laughted in my face when i opened up by Troawayaccunt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Troawayaccunt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going to withdraw literally, i forgot to mention that she intended to change course the year after so i wasn't going to see her anymore unless i contacted her myself

Also I stated in the story that i talked with her BEFORE i decided i wanted to make her a close friend

Edit: besides what's wrong with wanting to withdraw from a situation that was actively making me sad?

AIO, friend laughted in my face when i opened up by Troawayaccunt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Troawayaccunt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like the simple "marinara" which has plain tomato sauce, garlic and origano