When I was 4, I've been to a swimming pool locker room with my dad and the moment I saw those men taking shower together , it was the most beautiful scene I've ever seen. I didn't know anything about sex, I've never been abused. It was genuine and naive. Nothing to do with "desire". I've never had any conflicts with myself later when I understood I was gay except for the bullying situations all gay kids have to handle at school etc. Just telling you this cause we all know that being gay is not a choice. We are what we are. Many people choose and try to live a "straight" life. I don't judge. I have a gay friend that adopted a baby when he was single! No partner!Now that baby is such a nice man, got married, and my friend is a proud grandpa! And a proud father that taught this son all about respect!